Have You Ever Lied to Get Sex

I just watched a pretty interesting TV Show that I had to ask if you have ever lied, or pretended to be someone else, to get sex?

The plot of the show was that a man was impersonating an admissions person at a respected college and then had sex with women who were trying to get their children into that college. The person on the show was impersonating another person that did actually exist. The prosecutors were trying to say that the man had raped the women because they thought they were having sex with someone else, that the women were consenting sex with the real person, not the impostor. Would you call that rape?

Sorry to say, but yea, I have lied to get sex. When I was younger it was to make the men I was hooking up with more comfortable. I told quite a few guys that "this is the first time I've been paid for sex", or "this is my first time with an older man". Those lies seem to have made the men I was hooking up with just a little more horny about the encounter. I've also lied a few times about what I do for a living. I've said that I was full time college when I'm actually really part time and work at a big department store at the same time. And when I was just getting going in the hustling racket I lied about how experienced I was.

On the other side, I've had men lie to me about being married when they were single and vice versa, about being higher up the corporate ladder than they really were, or about their education. And being in this area, yep, I've had a few tell me that they were big into the movies and could make me a "star". I was always waving that one off long before they completed the sentence.

To me, I think people are a lot more trusting at first meet, the way it should be. I will trust what people think until they give me a reason not to. If I plan on hooking up with a guy who says that he is an investment banker, I'm not going to go Google him to find out if it's true or not. I try to be careful though by paying attention, I don't want someone to say that he is that investment banker and then find out he is a night janitor who has dead bodies under the concrete in his backyard.

So I just wanted to toss it out there to ask: What lies have you told to get someone to go to bed with you?

Re: Were the women raped?

Uh... No. Yeah, the guy was pretty sleazy to pretend to be an admissions officer, but on the other hand the women were sleeping with (someone that thought was) an admissions officer to get their kids into college! I think there is plenty of sleaze to go around in that story. Kids should get into college on merit, not based on who the college staff gets to sleep with. What about kids with gay parents? What are they supposed to do if the admission staff is straight? Unfair!

No I have not, but people have lied to me. Honesty has it's points, you can say what you mean, and if truth isn't enough, then people have the right to decline of sex if they will. But I've never had to lie, I just trust my looks... Honesty is fun, when you are healing std, been short of dry season

And people can lie very cruerly, they'll promise you everything, just to get sex. I hope those people drown in waist.

I never tell lies, and if I did I wouldn't admit it.