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How anal sex feels?

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I am 18 and ever had anal sex. Nobody can tell me how it fells. Is there anyone who is a good describer?
 

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From my perspective...If it hurts Stop!! Yes it can be very enjoyable for most people. First, you must be comfortable and relaxed. You should use plenty of water based lubricant something like KY Jelly could be good. Have your partner start with a finger and only insert a little at a time. When your partner feels resistance they should not try to force it in but hold the position. Eventually, your sphincter muscles will relax and then you can continue. Depending on how large your partner's penis is or dildo, they should wait until you can take two or three fingers in. A small dildo works to make sure you are ready. If you are unsure of it still, you should be on top so you can control how much goes in you and if it hurts you can stop. By no means should you ever be forcefully penetrated as it can tear your muscles cause bleeding and will forever stigmatize you from ever trying it again.
 

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Taking it up the Bieber

I am 18 and ever had anal sex. Nobody can tell me how it fells. Is there anyone who is a good describer?

I don't know how these guys in porn movies do it. Especially those who supposedly are doing it for the first time.

There is no way that any penis could get in my ass because I am way too tight. Someone I used to know tried anal sex for the first and last time with a black guy that was huge. The funny thing is, this guy was a cop that hated black people, but had an intense fetish for black cock in pictures. Anyway, when he tried it, he said it felt like he was being torn in half!

I have noticed that even straight guys become addicted to anal sex though. Once they learn to relax their muscles, they love it, and often are not satisfied without anal stimulation after that. Bisexual men seem to be bottoms in sex, probably because they can't get their ass humped by a female.

Bieber loves the black cocks. He has 3 black guys living with him. Lil Za, Lil Twist, and Tyler the Creator. You will never see Justin get married. We can have a lottery to guess the date that he comes out of the closet.
 

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To me it has always felt like taking a shit backwards. Not painful but strange.I don't enjoy it and don't care to top. I'm just not anal, I guess.
 

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Anal sex feels good in a way that is totally different to stimulating your cock. What should be happening is that your prostate should be being stimulated. You'll find that makes you precum a lot, and, that it will make stroking your cock feel better. Above all - it will make your orgasm much more intense.

As has already been said - if it hurts, you're doing it wrong - STOP!

Anal sex takes practice. You need to assert control over muscles you're not used to controlling, you need to get familiar with new sensations, and you need to get to know your body - at what angles do things slide in easy for you etc..

You could do all that learning with a trusted partner. But, I'd suggest a different approach - do at least some of that learning by your self. Buy some toys of various sizes, and explore at your leisure.

Don't feel any pressure to like anal sex. It's not compulsory! If you don't enjoy it, don't do it!

B.
 

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It tickles, it hurts, is pain exciting?
 

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You could always try it yourself with some appropriate everyday objects found at home...
 

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someone says if it hurts stop--first time or two is gonna hurt--just like when a woman gets screwed first time its gonna hurt some--if it hurts tell the guy to pul out add more lube
other than that anal sex feel different to everyone with me feeling my hole stretch open to let his cock go in pressing against the inside walls then against my prostates is absolutely awesome I like going bare because I love feeling hi erupt inside me as well
 

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someone says if it hurts stop--first time or two is gonna hurt--just like when a woman gets screwed first time its gonna hurt some--if it hurts tell the guy to pul out add more lube
other than that anal sex feel different to everyone with me feeling my hole stretch open to let his cock go in pressing against the inside walls then against my prostates is absolutely awesome I like going bare because I love feeling hi erupt inside me as well

I feel like it hurts every time. I never get used to it. After anal sex my hole gets reset to status quo and next time we have to do prep work and foreplay as if it were the very first time. I can't be the only one...?
 

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someone says if it hurts stop--first time or two is gonna hurt--just like when a woman gets screwed first time its gonna hurt some

No! There is no hymen in your ass!

The first time a woman gets penetrated a piece of skin covering the entrance has to tear away - that means a little blood, and some pain. There is nothing like that in your ass.

If it hurts, you're doing it wrong - you need to slow down, add more lube, pause, so SOMETHING, just keeping going when it hurts is a recipe for damaging yourself!

B.
 

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No! There is no hymen in your ass!

The first time a woman gets penetrated a piece of skin covering the entrance has to tear away - that means a little blood, and some pain. There is nothing like that in your ass.

If it hurts, you're doing it wrong - you need to slow down, add more lube, pause, so SOMETHING, just keeping going when it hurts is a recipe for damaging yourself!

B.

Very good, very honest and very true answer! :thumbs up:
 

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Yes, relaxation is the key. And in porn, the bigger the dick, the better the sex, but for me personally, some dicks are just too long.

Multiple the pleasure of releasing of a single dump, add the warmth and closeness of your partner, the temptation and lust, and feel your guy inside of you, wanting him to stay there for ever, getting pleasure and giving you pleasure.

And I doubt that someone is too tight. You can poop, can you? Some are looser than others. I am quite tight too, but the flexibility of anus is quite amazing. Don't take too much too fast. Lube, foreplay, relaxation and wanting it are the way to go. Fingering is good to start with.
 

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I am 18 and ever had anal sex. Nobody can tell me how it fells. Is there anyone who is a good describer?

Honestly, its not natural at all!

That said, i certainly do not condemn it and have had my share of taking dick up my hole a lot. However, i dont do it anymore because of the troubles it caused me. Maybe one of ten times it actually feels "good" and i mean that relatively. I figured out in my life that ai LOVED pleasing whoever I was with and that was the only reason i got fucked cause it turned me on to see my guy getting pleased.

Anyway, thats my thought on it. Cheers!
 

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I've read in the meantime all the posts here - most of the guys here didn't like anal-sex because of this or that.

Most of them, or all of them are right in their opinion. But it is THEIR opinion or sense perception. When I was penetrated for the first time I've thought to be split up in two halfs and it really hurts because I wasn't used to. But I've head a very tender and considerated partner. I can say he trained my sphincter and it lasted some time until I could take him into me without pain.

Today - and that is my only personal perception - I like it so much. I like it because I can see, feel and perceive the lust I can give my BF if he is doing it to me. So now I'm used to - but honestly it was a long and sometimes painful way.

So this is my point of view.
 

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It's hard to describe because there are so many variables, it's different every time.
Size, speed, force, angle of penetration, amount of lube, and most of all, chemistry between partners all play a part in the experience.
I've had monster cocks that just slid right in with ease while some smaller one's felt like they were tearing me apart.

For me, there are two types of fucks, good ones and bad ones...

The bad ones...

It hurts so bad you just want it over. It doesn't matter if it's a huge cock pounding you into mush, or a smaller cock going slow and easy. Sometimes it just doesn't feel right. Pure agony...

The other bad fuck...
You don't feel anything but uncomfortable, it doesn't hurt at all, but there's no pleasure either. And your thinking to yourself, Are you done yet?

Then there are the good fucks...

Good fuck 1...
It feels like a sensuous massage from the inside out. You almost want to go to sleep, not because it's boring, but because it feels so relaxing and comforting. And it doesn't matter if it's a huge cock pounding away at light speed or a smaller one going nice and easy, it just feels so right...

Good fuck number 2, the best fuck...
Every nerve in you body is tingling, all you want is more. Harder, faster, deeper. Your clawing at the sheets or his back, you legs are wrapped around his waist, trying to pull him in deeper. You can't see or hear anything besides the two (or three) of you, your in sensory overload and you never want it to end. Your literally being fucked senseless, and this is as "right" as it's ever going to get...

But again, there are the variables. I've experienced all the above with the same partner at one time or the other. We weren't lovers, just fuck buddies and he had a nice, thick 8 inches. Most of the time the sex was the mind blowing, sensory overload, fucked senseless or sweet relaxing screw. But there were a few time when for some reason or another, it wasn't right. It all just depends...
 
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Speaking from the perspective of someone doing the fucking, all I can say is that it feels damn good! Every time. :thumbs up:
 

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How it feels can depend upon the top and your relationship/connection to him.
 

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Does it tickles?
is there an anal orgasm?

No. Well, unless one would think pooh coming out is an orgasm.

Not making fun, just brutal truth. And yes, that does happen no matter how much one prepares with precautions. Even enemas are not 100% guaranteed.

I will say the best part of anal sex is when you are in total synch with your partner, when the fuckee has their orgasm, the muscles in anal region tighten, the top feels the squeezing which directly feels good on his penis wnd he will usually thrust faster until the orgasms are almost simultaneous. Thats the only part of anal sex thats enjoyment.
 
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