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How do guys prepare for sex?

helltime123

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Prepare a lube and take a shower, that's all :). As I'm a top so I don't have to do the "extra" cleaning.
 

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Any experiences with Mister B Relax spray? It's for relaxing the anal muscles for easier penetration, supposedly without losing the sensation...
 

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it's all about consideration.

showering goes without saying and if you're bottom, F.F.S. you gotta douche !!

no-one wants to find unwanted caramel on their fuck-stick !!

also, as a top, if you want your arse rimming, then consideration for the bottom, probably involves a douche too - if that tongue's probing, you oughta taste nice....
 

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I don't lmao. A shower if i had done vigorous activity prior. I have learned though eating prior is really not the best idea.
 

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nice hot shower with lots of kissing and rubbing
enjoying the heat of the water and his body
we towel each other off and slowly make our way to the bed
 

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I haven't seen any of my fellow bottoms mention this yet...but you need fiber in your diet! If you're super anal (hah!) about being totally clean down there, then you should take a daily fiber supplement like metamucil or the cheaper store brands. It makes everything in your digestive tract bind together into big logs and makes cleaning up much much easier (and faster)! Also, just eat healthier! If you eat a bunch of fast food and junk snacks, well you're gonna have a mess to deal with.

I've seen some people mention taking 30 minutes or an hour to get their butts ready for pounding...that's ridiculous and kinda OCD. Unless you're dealing with long cocks/dildos that penetrate past your rectum into your sigmoid colon, a quick water douche is all you need. I've never used enemas. Just squirt some water up there, let it out, repeat, walk around for a minute or two to let the remaining water move around and push out the last few drops. Good to go.
 

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First and foremost I shower because I like a clean body on both myself and any guy that I'm with. To clean my bum I use lots of soap and give it a good fingering to really clean around my entrance.

Then I take a small dildo, warm it with hot tap water, lube it up with liquid soap, and insert it into me. I put it in and pull it out several times, washing it between insertions, to ensure that everything up there is as clean as I can get it. I like to insert it all the way so that I can clean as far into me as I can. Using a dildo also has the benefit of preparing my anus to take a cock as well as getting me really horny anticipating what is to come (pun intended).

I've never had a complaint from any of my sex partners. Despite my cleaning regimen I still won't suck a cock after it's been in my ass.
 

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Despite my cleaning regimen I still won't suck a cock after it's been in my ass.

:agree::agree::agree::agree::agree::agree:

Totally right and I don't understand that that is shown very often in porns. For me a no do as well.
 

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There are two bossible scenarios:
1. Only preparation is getting drunk and on the move. Usually doesn't qaurantee good experience.
2. I already know the guy, we talked about sex likes, and planned some "movie" night or smth;) Shaving has become a habbit and then I shower really good, cause I'm vers and wanna be prepared for everything:p And of course lube and condoms are must.
 

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As a bottom, I shower and clean my butt.
Then, maybe put on some candy/fruit scented lotion.
 

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I always make sure that there is a nice fresh scent in the room, that the room is clean, clean linens, and a made bed. Lots of lube for the bottom that I intend to invade. Usually will edge during the day, getting some precum flowing so that I am really horned up for the action cum game time, I want my cock to be rock hard and throbbing and as thick as possible so the bottom can really get a pounding from me once its time to pound that butt.
 

AdenaTG

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I haven't had sex in such a very long time that I forgot what I used to do to get ready to have sex, lol
 
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HustleMe15

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For me it used to be taking a shower at the gym, putting on some Polo, getting into a tight pair of jeans and tshirt and cruise out about on the streets. :no: Then I did some bargaining and then off we go for sex. Nowadays it's pretty spontaneous with no planning between Nick and I. It usually starts though with a nice shoulder rub. p:p
 

kwhotboi

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I shower every morning, douche in the shower to get me clean, then fuck myself with a dildo attached to the shower wall to make sure I am clean deep. After I towel off I pre-lube my ass so I am ready for the first cock of the day.
 
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