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Hey guys !

Hello from Nice (France). I just discover this heaven and, well, you rock :thumbs up:
Here's the thing I want to share with you :

Straight men being such a turn on for me (and for most of you guys I guess...), I was wondering...why are they so fascinating ?
Is this a kind of "you can't have it" thing ?
What do you think guyz ?
 

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I think "straight guys" are for me out of order. Surely there may be some of them which I would like to have in my bed. But this wish will be fulfilled as well as like winning the lottery. I can't have everything. And please think at the reaction - it can be raw!
 

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Aside from a large number of Japanese men who have a fondness for other fat middle aged men, fetish for straight boys seems to rank up there in the world of Japanese gay porn. You get an endless supply of movies with straight boys, ordinary looking boys, non-reciprocating straight boys, being passively worked over by the host/camera man of the porn production firm. I find it an unusual situation that has very few counterparts in Western gay porn.
 

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Supposing the following simplifications for purposes of argument; that of all men, 10% are good looking, 10% are ugly and 80% are average, and that 10% of all men are gay, not just the ones who say they are.
Then out of a sample of all the 1000 men in your acquaintance, 90 of the hotties are straight and 10 gay. But if only half of the gay 10 were out, it would appear that 95 of the good lookers were straight. That may lead someone to the erroneous conclusion that straight men are sexier than gay men. Test that assumption by checking the number of ugly men in the same sample, the number is 95 again thus proving that straight men are uglier than gays. Thus proving nothing at all except that there are a lot of straights out there.
What use is such a man?. He may let you suck him a few times, if you are lucky he might even fuck you. One thing he will never be able to do is love you. Life is too short to waste time on men who cannot give you love.
 

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Supposing the following simplifications for purposes of argument; that of all men, 10% are good looking, 10% are ugly and 80% are average, and that 10% of all men are gay, not just the ones who say they are.
Then out of a sample of all the 1000 men in your acquaintance, 90 of the hotties are straight and 10 gay. But if only half of the gay 10 were out, it would appear that 95 of the good lookers were straight. That may lead someone to the erroneous conclusion that straight men are sexier than gay men. Test that assumption by checking the number of ugly men in the same sample, the number is 95 again thus proving that straight men are uglier than gays. Thus proving nothing at all except that there are a lot of straights out there.
What use is such a man?. He may let you suck him a few times, if you are lucky he might even fuck you. One thing he will never be able to do is love you. Life is too short to waste time on men who cannot give you love.

Hear, hear!

Words of great wisdom well spoken by a keen observer of life.
 

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There have been several articles over the last few years. One as recent as February.

2018 Heterosexual Porn Preferences
39% of our heterosexual female users reported watching same-sex porn—where participants are only female— whereas just 24% of our heterosexual male users indicated that they watch male-on-male content on YouPorn.

I know at least 2 books have been written this subject lately. Mostly Straight: Sexual Fluidity among Men and Not Gay: Sex between Straight White Men. I think most of us all know that HIV AIDS organisations have been targeting MSM.

It's long been known some men who identify themselves as straight engage in homosexual activity. Variously described as downlow or bicurious. I'm sure most of us can attest to being cruised by up until then seemingly straight guys, as well as some degree of sexual experience with other boys at a younger age who would end up marrying women and living as heterosexuals.

I think these straight identifying men tend to look for straight guys in gay porn more than men who identify as gay. Of course within gay men there is also a clear category of masculine4masculine, no fems, a dislike for effeminate men in general but in particular when it comes to sex.

Men are socialised for masculine ideals regardless of their sexuality. Manliness is valued highly. Femininity is bad and undesirable in men. Gay men are feminine. That is still what societies at large push into every human brain every day. Just go out as a man with colored nails or a hot pink shirt and you will be stared at, maybe even get comments of aggression or ridicule. Hold hands or kiss another man and you are at higher risk of physical, violent attacks. If a man doesn't conform to masculinity he will be policed and punished by society one or way or another.

To begin with homophobia is present in most people to a degree until they question it. The general view is men who identify as straight are on average more homophobic than those who identify as gay. It stands to reason they are more likely to look for straight guys in gay porn.
 

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I don't bother with straight men anymore, since it's difficult and annoying. Straigt men are usually more manly, and there is larger percent of them. Most guys you come across are straight, so most good looking guys are straight. And big percent of the small gay percent are too feminine for my taste. (Percent? Is it prosent? Well, you get the point hopefully;))
 

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And to complicate things further, there is the cross dressing scene. I don't know much about it and it never gets talked about here but it is big. There are those men who never choose real women for sex or men who look like men, they go for men posing as women, knowing perfectly well that there is a cock and balls underneath that shiny frock. Are these men straight but confused, or gay but confused, or just exercising a specialised taste.
Any ideas?
 

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And to complicate things further, there is the cross dressing scene. I don't know much about it and it never gets talked about here but it is big. There are those men who never choose real women for sex or men who look like men, they go for men posing as women, knowing perfectly well that there is a cock and balls underneath that shiny frock. Are these men straight but confused, or gay but confused, or just exercising a specialised taste.
Any ideas?

I think any of the tree options is possible:thinking: I think the whole subject of the thread is complicated, since it feels like it's in the eye of the beholder. Women say "all good looking guys are either gay or taken" and gay men say "all good looking guys are straight". I don't agree with either one:p
 

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Aside from a large number of Japanese men who have a fondness for other fat middle aged men, fetish for straight boys seems to rank up there in the world of Japanese gay porn. You get an endless supply of movies with straight boys, ordinary looking boys, non-reciprocating straight boys, being passively worked over by the host/camera man of the porn production firm. I find it an unusual situation that has very few counterparts in Western gay porn.

That's because a lot of the 'gay' (or 'boy's love/yayoi...) porn/manga/books etc. in Japan is made for an audience of straight women, not gay men.

Personally, I don't fantasize about straight guys or find stereo-typically heterosexual/'masculine' traits attractive. I'd rather see 'real gay boys' I like our culture.
 

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That's because a lot of the 'gay' (or 'boy's love/yayoi...) porn/manga/books etc. in Japan is made for an audience of straight women, not gay men.

Personally, I don't fantasize about straight guys or find stereo-typically heterosexual/'masculine' traits attractive. I'd rather see 'real gay boys' I like our culture.

Perhaps the apparent pervading presence then of this porn genre is economically justifiable because of its wider appeal. It caters to gay men and straight women alike. I doubt though whether it would be profitable if it were aimed exclusively at straight Japanese women alone.
 
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