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lhardwick69

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i enjoy cock all sizes races and uncut or cut--but seems like alot of sites emphasize on huge dicks and was wondering if theres a thread for guys with just average or below average dick--i watched a video on a site called porkytube--where this fellow was nice yng looking and when he pulled his dick out stroked it got it hard and wasnt hung like a donkey i was so turned on by it and him...so anyone know if theres a thread like that here--ive searched but dont know if i am searching right but not find anything
 

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If you go on any gay chat site you find the usual fetish for big dicks, but there is also a surprising number of guys stating up front that their dick is "small", and also quite a few who are looking for guys with small dicks. It may be a bit of a backlash against the "big is better" ideal promoted by the porn industry, which among other things has given many men a wrong impression of what actually constitutes "average". Half the population have a dick smaller than the mean size - that's the definition of "mean". And the average length of an erect penis - I can't remember the exact source but I know it was from a reputable health information site - is apparently 14.9 cm.
 

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I don't see why so much emphasis is placed on penis size. If I'm attracted to a guy, I am attracted to him for him. That means all of him, and not just one body part. Honestly, big dick, small dick, or average - who REALLY cares? I'm interested in his dick, regardless of its size. There isn't a part of a man's body I don't find sexy, so I wish everything wasn't "big dick", "donkey dick", "monster cock", etc.
 

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I think the obsession with larger-than-average dicks is related to porn consumption. Before the convenience of VHS home viewing of porn most of us weren't exposed to an infinite parade of big dicks before our eyes. We may have fantasized about a big dick but it was a fantasy. Now there are literally thousands of big dicks to be found in every Gay, Bi or Str8 porn release each week for the past 30 years.

Don't get me wrong. I love Gay porn and I've been conditioned to expect big dicks going up tight ass holes in my porn. But I didn't grow into maturity with that conditioning. I am not obsessed with big dicks in real life. I'm more attracted to the man himself and not focused on only men with big dicks.

That's probably easy to say and I know it sounds judgmental but I don't mean it that way. You see I've been with the same man for the past 37 years and he just so happens to have a very, very big, long, fat and always very hard COCK! So I don't have to fantasize too much, lol.
 

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I too expect big dicks in porn (bigger than average), but in real life too big dick is a problem for me. I'm vers, and too big dicks are just smth I don't enjoy taking.

And I agree, there is more important things in a guy than huge dick. But also have to say, that if a guy has a really small penis, well, for me it's a deal breaking turn off. Unless his other ways hot bottom, so yeah we could have sex. Just in long term I find these pure top/bottom types to be bit boring sex partners. I like to witch every now and then:)
 

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i enjoy dick big or small--thats why i am wondering about others who think same way i do--i get tuned on more by a guy stroking a dick barely big enough to be seen out of his hand as much as i like seeing those huge cocks being stroked--i tend to like smaller--and i sucked and been fucked by guys up to 11 inches so trust me when i say its not that i cant handle the big ones-i just enjoy barely average guys a guy that fucked me with little over 4 inches proved to me size doesnt matter he really new how to use it
 

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On tv i'm definitely a fan of bigger than average...in real life i prefer average to smaller. The bigger it is the more work!
 

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i been fucked by guys up to 11 inches and smaller--even in porn id like to see some smaller guys top someone--big dicks especially in porn the guy is more fixed on his dick opening your hole up more than pleasing you--guys with smaller tend to fuck more harder thinking they need rove something since they are smaller--but anyone know where some pics n vids are--
 

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Just in long term I find these pure top/bottom types to be bit boring sex partners. I like to witch every now and then:)

It is totally OK that you like to switch your partners now and then. And it is OK as well if you like more the relief from, what you will calling, monotony.

But from where you will take your knowledge and your thesis that longterm relationship partners, or as you call them "these pure top/bottom types" will be boring sex partners?

What will empower you to this, let me tell you, insulting statement??? :angry::no::angry:
 

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But from where you will take your knowledge and your thesis that longterm relationship partners, or as you call them "these pure top/bottom types" will be boring sex partners?

What will empower you to this, let me tell you, insulting statement??? :angry::no::angry:

Obviously the statement was hastily and ill formed, my pardons:duh: Meant, that personally I find sex with pure top/bottoms in longer terms boring, cause I like to get dick too some times, or get to be the one doing the topping. Some guys only wanna bottom, then I can't get my share of you know what:worried:
 

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Obviously the statement was hastily and ill formed, my pardons:duh: Meant, that personally I find sex with pure top/bottoms in longer terms boring, cause I like to get dick too some times, or get to be the one doing the topping. Some guys only wanna bottom, then I can't get my share of you know what:worried:

I'll understand you and I have understand you - but in first reading, your text sounds really very harsh and disparaging - and so came my as well unfriendly answer because I live in such a "boring" longterm top/bottom relationship. And not me nor my BF is feeling boring in this relationship.

With that said: peace again?! :worried:
 

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With that said: peace again?! :worried:

Of course:big hug: Harsh reactions only show bit of emotion in a wonderfull way:) And it was in order to clarify my statement.
 

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As this has now reached a second page, I don't think it qualifies any longer as being a shorter than average thread
 
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