bi boyfriend

[DarkLeniox]

I could never date a bi guy.

 

[ethanbj]

i like bi bois

 

[Goatboystef]

Hmm. I'm not sure I get this...is it an open relationship? In the end it sort of depends on the depth of their sexuality: it's rarely black and white, a lot of bi people do prefer one sex over another.

 

[tyan]

its so much better than u love a man who u never get like str8 man or even a homophobic friend.

as far u can touch him, love him, kiss and making love, that's not so bad. :big hug:

 

[Cerno]

I dont like bi men for relation. I dont want to share my bf with a woman. Plus, a bi man will mostly choose his girlfriend to avoid shame.

 

[jw4833]

Again another false assumption from Lord of the gay~X(... there's 13 levels of bisexuality little buddy... you might want to read about them and before you go with a bisexual you can ask the question and make your choice. Bisexual aren't always sharing, many are alternative bisexual which means one relationship at a time. I am bisexual and WOW look I'm married to a man... and haven't touch a woman for the last 7 years. You are again showing you wonderful and powerful ignorance...I really hope you'll start thinking before you open your trap... might be your opinion but it's getting very insulting.

You know I'm starting to understand why it is hard for you to find a boyfriend or love for that matter... no ones like a judgmental person (just to be polite because I have another word for people like you)!

Good input Jake because you are right...all bisexual guys aren't alike or think alike...

 

[Cerno]

Again another false assumption from Lord of the gay~X(... there's 13 levels of bisexuality little buddy...

Are you serious??? Funny, I honestly feel it's you who keep judging me from one post to another. You keep forcing me to accept that my way of thinking is wrong and that it is I who kept messing up gay American facts.

I'm merely stating my OPINION. Can't a member here freely state his/her opinion without having to go through your approval??? X_X I never even go critical to all your comments. Everyone has different opinions and views, that's a FACT of life. True example: you and I. We clearly think the opposite. Funny, it seems no one supports me whenever you show up :thinking:

Life is not mathematics. It's not 1+1=2. Life is about logics. And of course many factors play a part, such as surroundings. You can't say bi level 1 will surely marry woman, and bi level 13 will surely marry man. Sometimes what we want is not what we can/may get.

I have A LOT of experience with BI men. Usually they lied to me about their status. But some openly said "I'm bi, I have wife and kids, But I want to fuck you." I have not met ONE bi man who happily choose to be entirely gay.

IF I had been born as a bisexual man, I honestly would choose a woman! No matter if I tended to like men or women. Why?
1. Parents (I wanted them to have grandchildren)
2. Religion
3. Neighbors and relatives
Why, coz it's how I was raised and how my surroundings dictates me. But I happen to be gay and therefore I rebel.

Yes, I'm not American but I have many american gay friends. I wanted to confirm your "fact" about american gay men having choice not to marry women. So I sent the link (about France gay marriage thread) to my American friend. When he read, he quickly said that you must have lived in the cities. And he asked u to come to Louisiana to witness the opposite. That's not me talking, that's an AMERICAN GAY talking.

Look, I don't want to start a war of disagreement. It's not me who start censoring opinions. As I said, life is not mathematics. And not all people think the same. I do not force u to think like I do. So I'd appreciate it if you do the same

 

[Sinnerr]

Every member has right to write his\her opinion. But also everyone can polemize with others (without offence). Here we are on discussion board.

 

[Alyrda]

In my eyes it does not depend on the sex of a person it depends on the relationship of you and your partner there is no he is bi and needs to make love with different sex people. If you don't mind kind of open relationship its fine but it makes no difference how your orientation is

 

[btcollect]

13 levels of bisexuality? Best thing I've read on the subject anywhere in a long time. OK, I haven't finished reading it yet. Too dense, interesting, true, and familiar. I keep having to take a break LOL. I'm bi in my mid-30s and the older I get the more isolated I feel since there's no community I fit in. Even though the emotions of my longer-term relationships are very deep and real to me (and them) there just aren't any templates, or stereotypes, or rolemodels, movies books songs...

 

[btcollect]

Some bisexuals are not attracted to a gender per se, but are instead attracted to the person's personality or various other attributes and take note of gender afterwards, if at all.

That's it right there for me. You connect with someone -- at a party, at work, over time, within a social network, get in sync over art, or bond during sports -- and you don't perceive, or understand, or accept the limits society places on how you express, physically, what you're feeling as you resonate with the other person and feel satisfactionl and like everything is good. But everything everywhichaway is taboo.

Even when it seems to work it really never works. To anyone else; maybe never.

 

[alexfot55]

I stand corrected

passive?

bottom and passionate for me.

 

[topdog]

... there just aren't any templates, or stereotypes, or rolemodels, movies books songs...

... or, maybe you get to identify with all of them? :thinking:

 

[bottombitch]

@SimplyJakeAndAlex. Well written and you are right... you can type a lot

 

[ethanbj]

nice thread

 

[sonanbuloboy]

I think those who said monogamous are on the right track. The issue with polygamous is not having control with whom the third gets to sleep with. Then all of the sudden you have a chain reaction and disaster around the corner. STD's, you name it.

 

[skinroyal]

U should also talk to this with your doctor, since u will need to get tested for other STD's if your boyfriend is sleeping around with women.

 

[ethanbj]

good points!!

 

[heyisthis4real]

Buy them somethin they do anythin

 

[ethanbj]

any input??