Do you believe in real gay-men love?

[jaxfltop]

I believe in gaymale love because I have loved a man for 21 years even though I am not in a relationship with him. He is my roommate. He doesn't love me anymore because I gained too much weight, and got too much body hair. He has been though several relationships since I took his virginity, and somehow always ends up coming back to me to get his life back on track after it is destroyed, because he knows I love him and will never turn him away. I supported him for a 2 year period while he was getting his life together after a serious addiction problem and he has been living with me since though dating other guys (online only)for the last 7 years. Of course now that my health has declined dramatically (to the point that I have filed for disability, something I vowed never to do). He is picking up a little of the slack on the extra bills, so who knows, maybe in his own way he does love me too.

 

[Ryzard]

Congrats, and enjoy!

 

[orixa]

Sure, why not? As real as anything non-gay. Whatever that is.

 

[hrylgslvr]

Definitely yes. I have been in a strong and committed relationship for 39 years. I'm not going to pretend that it was all sunshine and roses because there were some very difficult moments. What made it work, however, was the fact that we were willing to work very hard to make sure that it worked.

 

[appleseed87]

im goona say yes . If ur very very very lucky to find ur perfect match

 

[giu]

Love conquers all as they say right?

 

[allen45top]

It does exist. I was with my one and only love for 19 years until cancer took him away last December. I miss him every day and always will. If you have found your true love, enjoy and my best wishes for both of you. Love him, tell him you love him, hug him at every opportunity. Kiss him every time you get the chance. You never know what fate has in store for you. Again, tell him how much you love him and give him a long deep loving kiss or just a peck on the cheek every chance you can.

 

[darthwolf]

Love

Of course. Everyone experiences love. Anyone falling in Love homosexual or heterosexual is extremely difficult and take practice to work on a relationship.

 

[b4pxku4u]

I believe in it provided we are not expecting it to be the same as heterosexual love. The assumption is that it is the same. Men are wired differently. We have the right to expect fidelity but I think a gay relationship will take a lot more to make it work than a heterosexual one. Naif? :?

 

[londonbuddy]

Of course it exists! nothing beats that feeling of being 'in' love!

 

[Otage]

It depends on how one defines loves.

 

[maddinW87]

Love is that magical feeling that your heart beats faster if you look at each other!

Yes sure love exist and we all found love some day!

 

[RefixnarcisM]

I believe it.
Although many non gay people would think that we just attracted to other gay by our physical and need of sex. I more attracted by what in, their heart. And that is true love.

 

[gaylicious]

It does exist. I was with my one and only love for 19 years until cancer took him away last December. I miss him every day and always will. If you have found your true love, enjoy and my best wishes for both of you. Love him, tell him you love him, hug him at every opportunity. Kiss him every time you get the chance. You never know what fate has in store for you. Again, tell him how much you love him and give him a long deep loving kiss or just a peck on the cheek every chance you can.

Wow! What words of wisdom!

But I'm really sorry for your loss

 

[andytoon]

its true - believe me

 

[Lotus69]

Yes, I do.

 

[alexfot55]

Yes,whatever love may be.

 

[rs18550]

I see sucess stories all the time at MCC in the valley and some with kids as well.

 

[toetke1]

I dont,now i dont want to sound negative but i think two men can't love eachother for real.Sooner or later someone gets heard,believe I've been down that road a couple of times myself.Also some of my best friends got hurt while in a relationship with the man they thought was the true one.