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whats stressing you out?

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for me its just me:( i find nothing in this world to stress me other than me:D
 
I've been finding out that hard way that you should never take either your health or your money for granted - you can go from buying every new shinny thing apple make and being fit as a fiddle, to being broke and chronically ill in surprisingly little time.

Don't put off getting income protection, and check your health insurance and work benefits - best to get your ducks in a row before you need them.

You know something - it feels better to get that off my chest :)

B.
 
Finding ways to pay for college is really my biggest stress generator right now.
 
I agree!!! my college loans are stressing me out!!! if i had known it was gonna end up costing me a fortune, i should've just gone outta state for college and pay a little more... why the fuck did i go to a local university for??? oh well.. what's done is done.
 
trying to wrap up my master thesis, have my defense, and graduate in 10 days! aaarggh!!
 
trying to wrap up my master thesis, have my defense, and graduate in 10 days! aaarggh!!

Best of luck with it mate - if you're stressing over it you'll probably do fine - it's hte people who don't stress about things like this that blow it on the day!

B.
 
hey thanks a lot gb2000ie :) it's just the closer you are to the finish line the more you are faced with problems, small but tonnes of it!!!
 
At the moment, the list of things that stress me out is too long. But that's life isn't it? Hurdles and highs.
 
What Stresses me out. Not been able to find another job that will pay me a decent wage :-(.

Today was a bad day. Not really sure why today was bad. Did speak to two agencies today on the phone but that did not come to anything. Maybe REALITY is beginning to hit home and I dont really want to admit it.

This evening was the first evening that I had a stiff drink. Not drunk anything since Christmas time for THIS exact reason!
 
ughh school , and that i really want to loose some weight =/
 
All of life has stresses at times but things can only get better
 
What Stresses me out. Not been able to find another job that will pay me a decent wage :-(.

Today was a bad day. Not really sure why today was bad. Did speak to two agencies today on the phone but that did not come to anything. Maybe REALITY is beginning to hit home and I dont really want to admit it.

This evening was the first evening that I had a stiff drink. Not drunk anything since Christmas time for THIS exact reason!

While waiting for a decent job to present itself to you, make sure you are at the top of your game. One way is to volunteer for anything that you can do. Most cities have a list of agencies seeking volunteers. As coy as it may sound, the possibility of connecting with someone who can further your career is higher when you are out there among people, than when you are at home or dealing with agencies (to whom you are a mere number).

Even if you don't connect that way, being able to demonstrate volunteerism on a resume or to talk about it during an interview, positions you as a broadly-experienced person with a world view; something that interviewers take note of more and more these days. I secured a second interview for my present job, and stood taller than other candidates by explaining how I did volunteer work with guys who have some type of learning disability. I taught them in small groups how to use computers and related stuff (copiers, fax, multiple line office phones) and thus enabled THEM to find small odd jobs. That apparently impressed the initial screener that she alerted the HR Manager to my application and resume. The second interview dealt more with how I approached coaching and training, than my actual qualifications.

I got the gig, and that was four years ago. Still going strong and moving upward.
 
I know how you feel. This happened to me two years ago
 
Was about to say school, students' society blah blah blah. After reading your comments, I realised how lucky I am. I need to be more thankful. You guys are real fighters, keep it up! :)
 
Work, but not the working part. I'm saving up for a car, I get like $173 a week and my mom(my only ride) is giving me shit and making me the bad guy. Thought that she'd be happy about me getting a job but she still makes it feel like pulling teeth to ask for anything.
 
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