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will u be less complicated as you get older?

I hope so..but as a young adult am complicated :(
 
As I get older, I have noticed that a lot of things that used to bother or frustrate me does not anymore. When situations come my way now in my life, I don't dwell on them, and I shake them off and keep moving.
 
Same here. As I grow older, I'm less bothered by things that used to get under my skin. Probably I am more confident of who I am, and what I want to be and know how to get there.
 
I think the biggest change is realizing sometimes, whether it makes sense or not, "it is, what it is".
 
To become older is no Problem for me, because I had always good Times
 
Important is growing old with dignity and serenity.
 
growing old means also getting to know oneself better. the older one gets, thea easier we tend to tackle people and situations. Complicated stuff is behind, we move to more positive. at least, it is what I think, I am 50 now....
 
As I get older I simply pick my battles instead of making everything having to be a personal conquest. That is probably being more complex vs complicated.
 
When you are young, the future is full of possibilties. And you are full of insecurities. As time goes by, you make your choices. l In many cases, life chooses for you.
At the same time, you learn who you you are, and accept who you are.

By middle age, it is much clearer..much simpler. For me...much better.
 
Less complicated, definitely. As everyone has been writing, all those things which cause us worry now (how we look, what people think of us, etc) will, I am praying, not matter any more. The things that matter will come to the surface.

Then we can get on and REALLY enjoy life, in a care-free way :)
 
I think that I am less complicated on a first view now but at the same time I have more quircks. :)
 
No I won't be less complicated even though I wish I would. I think I will be more complicated and I won't know what to do with myself.
 
Getting older you trimm the edges and cut the corners a bit.Experience shows that this is the healthiest way to survive.
 
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