Would you mind if your bf would be former rentboy?

[Sinnerr]

Just curious. I mean would it be problem for you to be in couple with such guy?

 

[AleXXX UK]

In theory no, and he'd have to be fully tested first and even then a part of me thinks once a whore, always a whore.

 

[tonka]

It would not be a dealbreaker. But...

- I would need to be clear about his health.

- I would need to understand. For someone who has a lot of transactional sex, sex becomes a transaction, not a joy.

- The rentboy life is also a drug life. That would be a dealbreaker.

That said. I expect there are a lot of great guys out there who sold their ass, and are ready for something better.

 

[Askani]

I wouldnt have issues I believe cuz if it happened I was either unaware or started to like him considering his situation. I'm not saying that I would like it, or that things would go smooth but I definitely wouldnt let it be the main focus of my relationship.

 

[c750dt]

Never a rentboy per se but a guy I dated back in '08 was a stripper and sometimes, he gave higher quality alone time to the higher paying customers. It made me incredibly mad thinking he was for sale.

 

[c750dt]

^The reality check already happened. I had no interest in partaking of such reality and thus, the fucker is long since dumped. Whatever future lies with that is something I'm not interested in. I've moved on. I like my hubby, the house and our kids. I have a legacy in the making with what I've settled down with. Also, I've got a person I can simply just settle down with which is awesome in itself.

 

[Sinnerr]

I do not understand one thing Jake. Why have you voted you would mind in that case? From your posts it seems you have nothing against this job.

 

[bigsal]

Pardon my frankness, but do moralism in this forum it seems out of place.

We gay, ridiculed, humiliated, abused, marginalized, etc.., We could be the first to look at others without judging, without labeling.

You can not judge a person just by showing that, without knowing it and attend.

I've never met a male escort. I met instead two "whores" by profession. Two nice people friendly and generous.

One of them, before going to the place of "work", brought with him some sandwiches that gave the homeless.
For the "common" people this was a whore and nothing else, no matter whether of the heart.

I close with a quote from a famous person (tomorrow marks his birth):

"he who is without sin cast the first stone.

 

[Tjerk12]

I am certainly not an everyone's friend. If somebody becomes my boyfriend than I have my reasons for it. I cherish special qualities of that person. So the answer is embedded in the question: it did not bother me!

 

[ritsuka]

No, we all have a past, and I have one too that prospective partners need to accept. Of course we'd have to be open, able to talk about it and what the cirstances were, how he feels about the whole thing now... In fact I already know of some really incredible, kind, beautiful people who were kicked out of their homes as teenagers and had to be rent boys to survive for awhile. I'd date them...

 

[havocs]

as long as he was clean and practices safely it wouldn't bother me,

 

[trencherman]

No, not at all.