I have to let him go T_T

[sweetuttsada]

My BF is getting married in 2 month, with a girl, it is an arranged marriage by his family.
and I have to let him go. T_T

Each and every single day I know I'm going to have to eventually give him away.. but it happened so soon. T_T

 

[AlSun]

Oh, no Sweets!
I'm really sorry to hear that.
The arranged marriage will be in two months? That's pretty soon.
I know: Different countries, different rules and traditions but that's one I really dislike.

I guess there is no good way around it and you both have to accept it.
Will you still see him or will you go different ways from now on?

 

[garth33]

sorry sweets...an "arranged marriage" - really? It's 2010! Forgive my ignorance but are arranged marriages still very common over there?

 

[Floddr]

Oh... damn..

 

[greekhot]

i wish this was not the case for you...this is so sad

 

[XMan101]

I know we discussed this a few weeks ago but it's a shock it's so much sooner than you thought.

I know it's going to be tough for you, well for both of you I have no doubt. It's difficult to accept in our minds over here how this sort of thing can still happen and I know we talked about that too.

Contact me and any of your other friends here if you ever need to talk - I mean that!!

*hugs babe

 

[sweetuttsada]

He came out to his family. The wedding is called off. Hes staying with me now.Im not afraid anymore. Thanks guys

 

[XMan101]

He came out to his family. The wedding is called off. Hes staying with me now.Im not afraid anymore. Thanks guys

Wow!! that is such great news !! I'm so pleased

 

[AlSun]

He did?
That's great! I'm really happy for both of you that you can stay together now.

 

[Squallmuzza]

I shall be sending around a bottle of champagne for celebrating . Great to hear! I didn't exactly know the full details of this, but sounded a major shitty situation! Always lovely to hear a 'happily ever after', just make sure that's how this story plays out mmk? =)

 

[newage]

Woot Woot a new doors opens for ya

 

[bloop2]

Did you know that he was going to eventually be in an arranged marriage? :S.. Cuz.. that sucks if you didn't.. if you did... then I would never try to get involved and eventually get heart broken.

 

[newage]

Did you know that he was going to eventually be in an arranged marriage? :S.. Cuz.. that sucks if you didn't.. if you did... then I would never try to get involved and eventually get heart broken.

oo poo let him revel in the good news

 

[XMan101]

Did you know that he was going to eventually be in an arranged marriage? :S.. Cuz.. that sucks if you didn't.. if you did... then I would never try to get involved and eventually get heart broken.

It's a tradition in his part of the world, so it's probably quite difficult to find someone who isn't expected to go through this. The old saying is also true, you can't help who you fall for. But at least this story has had a happy ending

 

[sweetuttsada]

Did you know that he was going to eventually be in an arranged marriage? :S.. Cuz.. that sucks if you didn't.. if you did... then I would never try to get involved and eventually get heart broken.

He always whisper to me , in a sad voice "dont get too much in love with me, bcoz someday i had to marry a woman, and i had to leave u" * always brings me to tears T_T*

But that's impossible isn't it ? how can u not give all your heart to sum1 u love..

I refused to have a relationship with him at first. But hes so cuute :x
Now we r free. I have nothing to worry about, hes with me.

 

[garth33]

HIGH FIVE WOOT!!! Sweets and congrats! I'm getting teary-eyed typing this I'm so happy for you bud! I can't think of a nicer reason (YOU!) for throwing away 1000 years of antiquated "tradition"

Peace and FUTURE PERPETUAL HAPPINESS FOREVER!!!!
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