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Hello folks!

Quick story for you.

Working at a bar now, and you will know I have a partner. There is a guy I work with that absolutely blows my socks off, he is such a beautiful lad and his smile literally melts me. I find myself staring at him for a few seconds and just thinking "Wow" and he isn't arrogant, he's a very quiet and polite guy.

He has a partner and so do I.

Is it normal for me to be having a crush, even though I am in love with my fella and he is too?

Don't want to be one of these stereotypical guys who goes after everyone.

-Sam xx
 
I don't think it's unusual, especially when you're young ;)

It's whether you both act on it or not, you could give up a happy relationship and find you're not really compatible after the initial swooning crush has worn off. Just think of him as a nice friend to spend your work hours with.
 
I got two words for you...

Swapping party...:devil:
 
Sammy dude your feeling is just normal. I believe you guys know how much I love my blondy locks, he's in my opinion one heck of a beautiful boy but yes I will sometimes have eyes for other dudes. Alex is a perfect twink at all level, tall, great tan, beautiful eyes, beautiful ass, dick and hairs but yes I will caught myself looking at other dudes and so will he... but you know what. The love we have for one another is over beauty, over sexual desire and I'm just too happy with this dude to even cheat on him. Therefore our solution, if we really want to have sex with another dude we'll invite that dude to our couple for a limited time but nobody will ever replace Alex. We actually have Alex's cousin in our house staying with us, he's another hot blond twink that amazingly looks like Alex and we did have some awesome nights with him (and still do), but again nothing will ever replace Alex :)
 
Of course it's normal... love and lust are not mutually exclusive
 
Well, I think this is just the most normal reaction and I think everybody had these experiences too.

If you were not reacting on such a sexy guy, I think then you should care about but in your case it's absolutely normal :)
 
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