Fall in love with str8 guy

[siapasaya]

Well, I know this is classic, yet still complicated for me. Still don't know why I always fall in love (or maybe just a crush) with straight guys. And I think that's what happening to me (again) right now:blushing:. Just another crush I hope it would not turn into love.

How do you think, guys? What would you do if you were falling in love with str8 guy?

 

[umpalumpa]

I had a crush on a str8 guy for many month but never said anythig to him so I won't loose his friendship. After a while he changed, got a gf and changed his style which was a good thing because I lost the intrest on him because of that. So I would say graz mate and try to make send him some signals. If he didnt't answer them I think it won't Result in sth. so it will be a wast of time. But still, the feelings are nice to have.

 

[raisinboy]

I would try my best to get over him. Been there, done that, never worked out for me. At least some of them became very good friends of me.

 

[dexedrine]

I would definitely say try to get past it. I have yet to turn a straight guy gay, as they have failed to turn me straight. I have tried to 'redefine' that particular emotion as bro-love rather than sexual love. It's difficult to explain, since our culture is bigoted and discriminatory, we have not been able to address these feelings earlier on in our social development. And in doing so, the strange 'feeling' that can be construed as sexual interest is simply an authentic caring for the friend and nothing more. Hope this helps.

 

[bloop2]

I've fallen in love with a couple of straight guys.. let me tell you don't!

 

[mrduke]

I have to agree. I don't reccomend it. I wasted 10 years on a straight guy. While he enjoyed the companionship, sex, and the thrill, he would never commit. All he would ever say is damn I wish you were a girl. He was one of the bad boys, which I adore, but he sent me straight (pardon the pun) to the therapist for a few years. Have a soft spot still, but not worth the time wasted when I might have found the most awesome well adjusted gay partner.

 

[jw4833]

I had met a straight guy several years ago and we had become good friends. I thought I would be honest and tell him my sexual orientation upfront just in case he was approached from someone else about it. Surprisingly, we became closer. As time went on, we spent everyday together or he would call me on a continuous basis. One night, he confessed he had fallen in love with me. I thought it was a joke and didn't take it seriously at first. As time went on, I had fallen deeply in love with him as well and we began to have sex every night. He started to get confused about his sexuality and stayed away from me for awhile. Eventually, he moved away to another state to start a new life. I had moved on as well and left the neighborhood. Later on, I've heard that he had came to town for a visit and was looking for me, but no one knew where I had moved to and then I'm sure his sister told him that I had a boyfriend.

 

[Irishman25]

awwww jw! i wish there was a happier ending there
hugs!

 

[BugsyB]

i hit on them...it never worked so i stoped

 

[Snome]

I have only 'fallen in love' twice. The first one died of AIDS and the second one is str8. Thought we are still good friends, he knows (and doesn't like) that I love him, though he maintains our friendship and for that I am grateful.

Were he to phone me tomorrow and say he wants me (I know he wont but I live in the forlorn hope) I'd drop everything and go to him.

HOW SAD IS THAT?