Is gay a choice?

[jaxfladude]

Of Course not

No!

 

[leowhyet]

sex is the truest expression of friendship, and being sexual just means you feel or have felt the ultimate passion, whether masculine or feminine.

 

[ryan_holtz]

Definitely not. If you are born gay, then that's who you are and that's who you become. You can't reverse or alter it in any way.

 

[chubboi2010]

not for me , i just never liked girls.. ever ..

 

[dawgbud]

Not for me. I was born this way baby

 

[logan222]

Definitely NOT a choice. Once I realized I was gay, I spent a few years trying to convince myself that I could change my orientation and turn myself straight, but no, it didn't work. If I would have had a choice since the beginning, I would have chosen to be straight (so that my family and people from my community would respect be).

I now embrace my sexuality, but I definitely did NOT choose to be this way.

 

[lovebearlove]

just born that way i guess .... when i was in kindergarten, i just knew that i got feelings 4 mature men

 

[BigBenni]

Being gay can't be a choice. You ARE or you ARE NOT.

That's just the term of sexuality. Some guys notice early and others need longer to find out.

That's the way of life

 

[bigsal]

Strange and provocative question.

I'd be curious to know someone who claims to be gay by choice.

Never read anything about it.

Will there really that person?

 

[Georgie]

For me it wasn't

 

[police151]

It's not a choice, but if it was I would choose to be the way I am - GAY!
I love being GAY. Personally, I think I got lucky!

 

[sant305]

no, it is not a choice

 

[fredinch]

Not a choice.

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

Being gay isn't a choice... it never was... go about your impulsions is. I consider myself to be bisexual because I have interest in both men and women, but and there is a but, I always did have a preference... for love I was more into women for sex I always did prefer having sex with guys as it was more intense and come the day I met THE DUDE, my dream dude I always have something for twinkish blond dudes and I finally found mine and I CHOOSE to give it a shot and 6 years later I sure don't regret it. It took a while to get use to it as in my head I was never going to fall in love with a dude and call him "baby" but love works mysterious ways I dropped all my fears of being judge for having genuine homosexual feelings and I've learned that YES i could definitely love a dude the same way I loved a women and do I ever love that one, not just because he's blond sexy and beautiful, mostly because he's like a brother that I get to fuck without the feeling that I'm fucking my own family.

I did not choose to be gay or bisexual but I choose the best that define me and decided to follow my feelings so I am not gay, I am not bisexual I am Jake who love and cherish Alex who happens to have a penis... and god does he have a beautiful penis :rofl: Tomorrow I could be Jake who love and cherish Lucy... but since I don't know anyone named Lucy I'll stay with my fake ass Lucy :rofl::rofl::rofl:

 

[crashky]

definitely not, I do not understand those people who think it is the choice

 

[wynedger]

Not a choice. Born this way

 

[achillthatbends]

It never was a choice. Most of the gay people I know would never want their son/ daughter be gay, not because it's a bad or evil lifestyle but due to the life their kids can be subjected by being in this world.