Nonchalant Masturbation

[bokehbaby]

Don't know if it's a thing. Tried g00g1ing it. Didn't find anything. Basically, it's a bit of a fetish of mine. Picture a friend or boyfriend sitting on the couch. You're having a normal conversation about whatever. There's no porn playing in the background or anywhere. Maybe the news is on or a talk/reality show. He starts playing with his cock, like casually. The conversation continues. You definitely see what he's doing but you say nothing and he pretends nothing strange is going on. He keeps going, gets hard. Maybe after several minutes he finally decides to , or he just puts it away. He cleans himself off and it's over.

I don't know what else to call this other than nonchalant masturbation. Can anyone relate to this? Has this ever happened to you or have you ever done that? Maybe sharing a bunk bed or hotel room? It's basically voyeurism/exhibitionism without sexually transitive participation.

 

[turkeyboy]

I admit your fascination sounds highly erotic and I'd love to be a part of it aswell.
Nothing like this has happened to me. I would find it difficult not to get involved and I'd want to join in with the activities, like giving a Helping Hand or BJ.
Maybe we all have voyeuristic tendencies in some way shape or form.
:cheers:

 

[bokehbaby]

I admit your fascination sounds highly erotic and I'd love to be a part of it aswell.
Nothing like this has happened to me. I would find it difficult not to get involved and I'd want to join in with the activities, like giving a Helping Hand or BJ.
Maybe we all have voyeuristic tendencies in some way shape or form.
:cheers:

Hi turkeyboy, I think that's why it's so erotic is because it's like a form of "gay chicken." It's easy to just get in there and help him out with your hand and/or mouth. The trick is to resist the temptation. Delaying gratification. Pretending it's not taboo for a guy to just whip it out and fondle his genitals. Like when someone itches their nose or ear, you wouldn't stop to comment on it.

I haven't tried it with anyone before, either being the voyeur or the shower. My boyfriend wants to try it out with me sometime. I can report back with the results afterwards.

 

[turkeyboy]

I don't think I could resist the temptation of not getting involved, in some way. With "Gay Chicken" at least you will definitely get involved, as remote as it may be.
Whilst this idea may seem a little "obscure" to some, it's good to create ideas to make life's experiences a little more interesting along the way.
It also makes us wonder what "other activities" we can cunger to make life interesting, especially in this "lockdown time".
Thank you for your ideas and thoughts and I look forward to you reporting back with your experiences with your boyfriend, in detail, to which I find very erotic !!
Have Fun ...... :big hug:

 

[Shelter]

No it never happened to me - but I think that I would be hard as well if I could watch a guy who is incidentally rubbing his cock until the cream is showing as a soggy spot onto his trousers. And I don't know if I could be watching only quiet. You call it "Nonchalant Masturbation" - I would call it a "sly cow"! -

 

[bokehbaby]

Seeing someone cream through his trousers is definitely hot under any cirstance.

I think of this nonchalant masturbation more like a strip tease. Imagine a professor in a lecture hall and he's talking about Chaucer or Darwinism, whatever, and he suddenly unzips and pulls out his cock and starts playing with it. He keeps on lecturing, maybe even asking/answering questions from his students. At some point he reaches orgasm and shoots several shots onto the floor either sideways or towards the front row. Nobody gasps or freaks out. And he squeezes his dick and shakes off the and puts his member away.

I guess you could call it "performance art." LOL.

There could be many variations on this. He could strip completely naked, or just unbutton his shirt so you can see his chest hair and he plays with his nipples. Remove just the lower half of his clothes and finger his butthole as well.