"normal" weight and weight-related stuff

[peter123]

I think people are toughest on themselves. I started going to the gym since age 13, and at 18 I miss the thin legs i had at 13 to 15 so i try everything i can to not work too much on the legs. Im fairly toned i'm 6'1 and 155 pounds, 7% body fat but i have fairly shapely legs because i did run track for 2 years. anyways back to the topic, i would not be interested in someone that doesn't put in the same effort as me to stay in shape, and i think they wouldn't feel comfortable around me naked if they were super overweight. I mean everyone is shallow no matter how much you express it, at the end of the day no one goes to the gym to get smarter....

You must look great, would you mind to post a pic of your hot body?:thumbs up:

 

[XMan101]

In terms of weight, I've always liked a fit body. Some guys are big and fit. Some guys are just hot...belly and all.

And then there's the gay bear culture. I've never gotten into it, but I admire it. They're big, thry're hairy, they don't give a fuck. They certainly seem to have fun.

Probably the happiest and friendliest gay bar I've been in was a bear pub. There were slimmer guys there too, but also guys with big frames and big bellies and nobody cared a damn. I've had a bit of a belly for years, it's never bothered me, and it's never stopped anyone fancying me. It's funny how one guy I met said almost appologetically he was a bit "beer shaped down there" as he put it ) He was slimmer than me Not worrying about getting the perfect figure does make you far more relaxed and happier, and in turn more attractive

So when I look at those new models and new twinks I honestly don't feel as much excited than seeing a amateur jerking off on its cam from its bedroom or living room, reality is what excite me, settings from porn movie doesn't get me at all. I know it's fake, I know it's directed and that's the part that I don't like. So give me a dude with a belly jerking off from his computer chair at home will excite me more than a studio dude for which pretty much everything is calculated just like a Ballet choreography.

So true! Some cam guys also don't even get totally naked and just great to chat to , they seem to get some great loyal followings the others don't, but if you're after something sexual the cam guys are always better than anything artificially produced!

 

[Sk8erBoiZach]

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You must look great, would you mind to post a pic of your hot body?:thumbs up:

judge for your self lol

 

[Sk8erBoiZach]

Not that hard to maintain a Belami boy body?
Wait till you hit your thirties, kid.

your metabolism does not slow down as you age 30 years, if you make the time to workout or just walk your dog (in some peoples cases) theres no reason you cant have a belami body. obviously eat right, and its not difficult to do that with so many healthy options around.

 

[AleXXX UK]

I think it's a myth that the older you get the harder it gets to stay in shape. Youngsters play a lot of sports at school keeping them in shape but people rarely carry sports on after college and life kinda takes over, people work long hours, eat badly and let themselves go. I'm much bigger, stronger and have lower body fat than I was in my 20s during which the whole time i was overweight by 4 stones.In fact in some of the muscle forums I go to a lot of the guys in the 40s and 50s say the older they get the more muscular they get. There's also a lot of new science on muscle memory suggesting once you work out and develop new muscle cells they may shrink but they never die, meaning if you got big once, even if you give it up and lose your bulk you can easily get it back with the right training. Ive seen guys in their 70s pump heavier iron in the gym than i can. Nevertheless, if you want to get ripped and into shape don't use age as an excuse!

 

[peter123]

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judge for your self lol

Pity, would like to judge, but there is no pic
Difficulties to post a pic?, contact me pls.

 

[Blacky94]

I can find bigger men sexy^^ My first love was overweight, and he is cute and sex at the same time. I didn't even now that was possible until I met him.
And he has such deep voice....I really loved just listening to him :3
Well sadly he is straight.but he still the nicest Human I ever met.

So yeah, Overweight is no problem for me. I prefer a nice overweight guy over shallow muscle hunk.

 

[Sk8erBoiZach]

Pity, would like to judge, but there is no pic
Difficulties to post a pic?, contact me pls.

now?

 

[peter123]

Wow, looks great and fully corresponding to your description:thumbs up::thumbs up: Thanks for posting!:thumbs up:

 

[noone88]

your metabolism does not slow down as you age 30 years, if you make the time to workout or just walk your dog (in some peoples cases) theres no reason you cant have a belami body. obviously eat right, and its not difficult to do that with so many healthy options around.

Yeah, it's not that hard if you don't begin eating like a hippo and not moving at all. Basic exercise and decent nutrition should be enough. It's a bit more difficult to maintain a "correct" six pack. Correct means that your overall build is more muscular too, every guy who is thin enough has a six pack of some sorts.

 

[peter123]

Yeah, it's not that hard if you don't begin eating like a hippo and not moving at all. Basic exercise and decent nutrition should be enough. It's a bit more difficult to maintain a "correct" six pack. Correct means that your overall build is more muscular too, every guy who is thin enough has a six pack of some sorts.

Yep the muscles are always there and visible if the body fat percentage is low.
You can build up a lot muscles, but they will not be visible that much if covered by fat.
:thumbs up:

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

Yeah, it's not that hard if you don't begin eating like a hippo

Hey don't insult the Hippos ) they're just big bones lol... Hippos actually don't eat that much, they spend the whole day in water and eat only once a day, yawning, but at night that's when they are active and eat their weight of food for the day... so hell yeah be a hippo (at night) not during daylight :rofl:. Hippos are huge just like rhinos but yet they can easily outruns you

 

[c750dt]

Being small and sexy is my job; keeping shit in line and making me comfy at night and in the morning is his job.

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

Being small and sexy is my job; keeping shit in line and making me comfy at night and in the morning is his job.

:thinking: Sorry the bold part is also your job toward your man... in fact it is much more important than being small and sexy.

I have a former super model as husband and if his job was just to be small and sexy I'd call that a total waste of time... he's comfy, so am I and that's OUR couple assignment... what if he's starting to get a few pounds tomorrow... pfff who the fuck cares I married the dude knowing very well that someday he'll prune out, some day his magnificent blond and long hairs would turn white or shading gray or someday my long dick won't come up anymore... that day we wouldn't care about the small and sexy as we established from the very beginning that it wasn't the most important of our relationship.

Good luck little buddy! :cheers:

 

[AleXXX UK]

Being small and sexy is my job; keeping shit in line and making me comfy at night and in the morning is his job.

No offence and you know I love you but high maintenance prissy divas are my biggest turn offs ever. I'm talking about men and women. It reduces one partner to a live-in prostitue. I want my partner to be my equal.

 

[noone88]

Hey don't insult the Hippos ) they're just big bones lol... Hippos actually don't eat that much, they spend the whole day in water and eat only once a day, yawning, but at night that's when they are active and eat their weight of food for the day... so hell yeah be a hippo (at night) not during daylight :rofl:. Hippos are huge just like rhinos but yet they can easily outruns you

Yeah but human hippoes eat a lot

 

[c750dt]

It's not about being a live-in prostitute. I don't go for anything extravagant, I wear myself pretty hard taking care of three kids (his two and his friend's daughter) and keeping a house clean and despite always being sore from this, I'll be damned if the man taking care of me goes to bed with someone dumpy. Thanks to me, the kids are getting better grades in school, this house is pretty at night despite always somehow being trashed by morning, and he's rarely stressed despite having a job that wears his ass out. If shit hits the fan and he's not able to come home to a pretty house, at least he can end the day with a pretty person.

 

[XMan101]

at least he can end the day with a pretty person.

Pretty no, hot yes

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

It's not about being a live-in prostitute. I don't go for anything extravagant, I wear myself pretty hard taking care of three kids (his two and his friend's daughter) and keeping a house clean and despite always being sore from this, I'll be damned if the man taking care of me goes to bed with someone dumpy. Thanks to me, the kids are getting better grades in school, this house is pretty at night despite always somehow being trashed by morning, and he's rarely stressed despite having a job that wears his ass out. If shit hits the fan and he's not able to come home to a pretty house, at least he can end the day with a pretty person.

Dude I'm pretty sure there's more about you that he likes than just being pretty... so what are you for him and what is he for you? Can you leave the prettiness away and respond to this honestly? Prettiness doesn't make the family, prettiness doesn't make the couple and if that's what you believe you are seriously mistaking and this sound to me that you're some kind of a Mary Poppins with balls.

In my household each and every one of us are looking good... but looking good isn't the most important, if shit hits the fan and Alex gets into an accident that smash his angelic face he's still have a husband that will love him for what he is and I am 100% certain that it will be the same for him if something would smash my good looking... love isn't based on appearance (it helps in the first encounters, but soon enough you learn to love other things than his silhouette or pretty face).

I love my dude not only because he's a super hot looking surfer dude, or that he cares for our kids, it's much more than that and I do hope you have more to provide than being a Frolen Mario... no seriously what is that? A Von Trapp remake:rofl:

Also you shouldn't see your relationship as being some kind of a job... my job isn't to be the money maker and Alex's job isn't to take care of the kids... we call it a shared accommodation where Alex gets to stay home and care for the household while I go out and care for the financial... but here's the difference... my job isn't wearing my ass off since I do what I like because I've created my own job... I'm the head of the company and at home Alex is the head of the household and it is not something we wrote on paper, it just happened.

My question to you? Is he your actual boyfriend or are you a nanny with benefits? If the latter that would make so much sense.

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

Yeah but human hippoes eat a lot

I know what you mean I have 4 of them in my house )