[OPEN TOPIC]Mason Wyler: the boy who cried "rape"?

[JonnyFantastico]

Consider this one the topic for next week (told you guys I would more than likely be doing this on a weekly basis. LOL) This will probably be one of the more "controversial" topics I've touched on, but as a human being as well as someone who dreams of being a writer someday, it's something I have to get used to. I hope you can all touch on this one with an open mind.

So, I'm more than sure that a lot of you have heard this story by now. If not, here's a cliffnotes version.

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Porn star Mason Wyler (there are more than a few videos of him on the Forum) sent a bit of a shockwave when he posted on his blog a report of him being raped. The story goes a bit like this: Mason, who is in an open relationship, decided to have a hook-up with a random guy. However, things quickly sprialed out of control and Mason ended up badly beaten and raped.

As quickly as the story hit, the whispers (and loud yells) of "liar" followed not so long after... until Mason posted pictures of his injuries on his blog and the police report (including Mason's real name) of the attack were leaked to the general public. If no one believed it before that point, there was certainly no doubting it after that.

However, the next chain of events are what make this so shocking: Mason went right back to work, filming more scenes; even recently expressing that he wants to do bareback porn for European porn hung dudes on his blog and creating an official website where people could grab even more of his videos.

As someone who personally has been molested and been sexually mistreated as a youth (it's OK for me to say that... I made peace with it long ago), it's a bit difficult to have compassion for someone who so quickly seemed ready to jump back into the game after such a horrible experience. Of course, I understand that we all deal with grief, pain and bad experiences differently, but this one takes the cake above all of that. It took me a number of years to realize just how much my troubled past had affected me and it took even longer to make that peace with it.

No one deserves to have those actions happen to them, but the question at hand is: is it hard to have any sort of compassion for someone like that? To those who knew the story beforehand (and to those who have just read it here), is it hard for you to download and view his scenes after knowing what happened to him?

Feel free to share your thoughts here.

Hugs,

Jonny Fantastico

 

[prinz4ming]

I dunno... it sounds a bit like a publicity stunt to me, but if it is genuine, I guess it may be his way of dealing with it... Its not an uncommon reaction whereby raped girls become sluts and so on...

 

[iFairylicious]

I call it a publicity stunt because knowing how twisted he is as an actor who knows. Also I think police would do more in a rape case than what discussed. He posted this lengthy rape fantasy blog on his Myspace before I deleted him then omg two days later an actual rape happened......I find that quite strange doesn't anyone else?!

 

[stanyy]

yes and no

 

[brmstn69]

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Sure dosen't look fake, and lets face it even with all the advances made in gay rights, to the police if a fag gets raped he was asking for it, and if he's a porn star then he deserved it.

 

[iFairylicious]

Who honestly knows. Could be a lie or could be true. Either way it is getting him publicity.

 

[JonnyFantastico]

I really hope this isn't a publicity stunt. Even if he is a porn star who likes to bottom and wants more cock then a henhouse; he didn't deserve to have this done to him. As a friend of mine said, the second things got out of hand and said the word "no", it officially crossed the line.

And Brm..., thanks for supplying the pictures and report; even though I was trying to avoid posting the pictures. They are a little on the gruesome side. X_X

 

[Bo.]

I know that many people are able to make everything just to be more popular. But, in this case I don't know what to say, from what I could read here it seems it's not a fake.

 

[feedme]

Well let's just hope this is not a stunt. Because it would be an insult to those who have been through it. I wish him well either way.

 

[kiddoblivion]

That kind of thing should never happen to anyone but if you put yourself in dangerous situations you shouldn't be surprised when the shit hits the fan. Trolling alleys and desolate parks for sex usually ends with tears, I'd venture to guess.

 

[himthere]

i'd say sex is a different thing to people who do it as an entertainment career. if i expect a person to act differently after rape, it's probably emotionally, but if he's been having sex professionally, and it's work, and he's not in love or fully trusting his costars, then the return probably not as jarring as one might imagine.

i have never been raped, molested, or filmed having sex, or paid to have sex, so anything i can say [and i suspect the same for most of the guys on this forum] is speculation. i do hope he's okay and wish him well, no one deserves to go through what he's described experiencing.

 

[brmstn69]

Mason was a slut before the rape, he just loves sex, plain and simple. To let this alter his behavior, and quit doing what he truly loves to do, would only give more power to those who assulted him. His behavior is his way of telling people that they may have had their way with his body, but his spirit is not broken. He wont play the victim for the rest of his life...

 

[hammervice]

I just hope it didn happen . I dont know why u lay about raped.

i never like him just not into him

I would not want to do bareback with him after he was raped i would be scary of getting some thing

 

[Fox]

Ok....it's been a little while, but as I remember it Mason had lost/left his wallet at some bar, it was later found by some random who called and told Mason that he'd found it. Now, here is where I think shit ran afoul. Dude told Mason that he found his wallet and told him that he could just drop it off since he already knew the address.

FULL FUCKING STOP!! Uh...thanks, but no thanks I will meet your ass (preferably somewhere public AND safe) where upon you will give me my wallet, I will thank you profusely, shove the wallet in my back pocket, and be on my merry fucking way. THAT is how I would have handled it. But, Mason agreed to let dude return the wallet IN PERSON--even INVITED this stranger into his home, and proceeded to "make out" with him (I believe there were drinks involved) after which things turned shitty. Now, it's clear that this was the intent when dude "offered" to return the wallet along with 2 or 3 other guys I think... (I forget, like I said it was a while ago)

While, I am NOT saying that he (Mason) asked for it or deserved it--I would NEVER say that (although honestly I did think it more than a few times while reading about it) But, he did make more than a few poor choices...you NEVER allow someone to return your wallet at your home. That just goes without saying. It is more than likely that this man recognized Mason from his license, before deciding ahead of time to do what he did. The whole thing is a complete mess. All in all I hope he is alright--both mentally as well as physically, but more importantly I hope he learned a lesson about what is acceptable and what is not.

 

[ori0n]

Im not sure he was raped.

 

[Disaster80]

Has anybody read his post about how he doesn't understand how hate crime legislation is important for the lgbt community? This is just baffling to me. He needs help.

 

[iFairylicious]

I still find the story to be bullshit lol

 

[paladino]

well... even if he started making up, and all,
it doesn't means he wants to continue it
nothing justify rape,
no "he was asking for it"
and no "he wanted me"

and no sex should ends up with bruises all over with either sides in mental or physical trauma
and him getting back to work, there are many ways to cope with a trauma ... doing what you always did helps, it doesn't mean he really gets what he was doing - that`s part of the symptoms of PTSD

all in all, even if he used it to spin his career onward, its still does means that the act of the assault was a good thing or that it should have happened