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When and how was your "Coming Out"?

rs18550

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Nervous then I realized I wasn't alone and then......... the exploration begun in earnest gay coffee houses support groups and finally... the bars.... the discovery of gay owned operated businesses the Anita bryant foolishness i was what one would call a militant gay back then.
 

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I was living in a group home & I chose to 'come out'. It was the biggest mistake I made as a 15 yr old kid.
 

burmrc77

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I was 17 and I really didn't have to come out. My parents simply asked me if I was gay and I just told the truth and said yes
 

iaro

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when i was 18 yo my father was in the same street when i kissed my bf
 

lionelboy

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From my folks, 16. From my friends 18, just after high-school.
 
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qcevolution

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I came in my teenage years. Throughout high school. There never really was one moment. It just kinda happened organically over time
 

givekoAA

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My mom is very religious, so I will only come out if I´m really into someone. Doing it for the heck of it would only be a headache : /
 

SexyGay

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I came out only to a few close ones. Don't dare to come out in public.
 

asi06

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There wasn`t one moment. Did it bit by bit.
 

labellemer

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Never been in, but I know it upset my mum. That did not last long.
 

cban

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When I went on my first Gay Pride march.
 

cockyblu

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i didn't actually came out; it just happened naturally...

or i was actually outed when i was really young. in 5th grade, when my homeroom adviser asked for a parent-teacher meeting, she told my parents her observations about me, being effeminate, and that's about it.

i think my parents knew it already since before that meeting. who wouldn't if their son likes to play dolls and with girl neighbors instead of playing rough-it-up with boy neighbors.
 

allnude4u

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Very easy and uneventful . My parents are very supportive and liberal.
 
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