Wish Me Luck

[Butt Boi]

Tomorrow I meet my half brother for the first time in nearly 15 years. Last time I seen him he was 16 or so, and even though we've lived in the same town this whole time, we've never crossed paths. Now a friend I am talking to again works with him, and she kinda set up the family reunion. Dad and mom already met him last week and now he's going to be visiting the rest of us this weekend. I don't know what to do. I'm happy and scared at the same time. I don't wanna do something to set them off and never come back around....

 

[Bo.]

It's a good news and I'm sure everything will be ok

 

[slimjim]

Hey BB..Wishing you well for the re-union my friend. Family dynamics can lead to all sorts of stuff.....What's the old saying "You can choose your friends, but fate decides your relations". Hope it all goes well for all of you.

 

[intensepump]

Good luck..and hey in my family..the half bloods...are the goods ones, they don't have the 100% evil genes the rest of us have...lol

 

[sweetuttsada]

Its a great news......Good Luck my friend!

 

[laylod4]

Luck!

 

[XMan101]

Good luck BB. Just play everything by ear and be gentle and polite until you know what makes him tick. Be natural and smile, that's always important.

You may be surprised, you may click immediately. After 15 years people can change, so just relax and see how it goes. I can imagine it's quite scary and nerve-racking and maybe exciting, but , as I say, relax!

Reunions can be good!!

 

[garth33]

Good luck BB. Just play everything by ear and be gentle and polite until you know what makes him tick. Be natural and smile, that's always important.

You may be surprised, you may click immediately. After 15 years people can change, so just relax and see how it goes. I can imagine it's quite scary and nerve-racking and maybe exciting, but , as I say, relax!

Reunions can be good!!

great advice - I had a similiar situation and this is what I tried to do...and it worked! Hope your's goes that same!

 

[Butt Boi]

Thanks for all the sweet comments. It's midnight now and they will be here in about 12 hours. I'm still so nervous I can't sleep. Been cleaning up around the house in between soap breaks! LOL.

Hopefully tomorrow I will have good news to report.

 

[Thor]

good luck, hope all works out good

 

[bloop2]

OMG GOODLUCK!! I know my post is a bit later .. but i hop everything went well! Please keep us posted because I would love to know what had happened!~

 

[garth33]

Tomorrow I meet my half brother for the first time in nearly 15 years. Last time I seen him he was 16 or so, and even though we've lived in the same town this whole time, we've never crossed paths. Now a friend I am talking to again works with him, and she kinda set up the family reunion. Dad and mom already met him last week and now he's going to be visiting the rest of us this weekend. I don't know what to do. I'm happy and scared at the same time. I don't wanna do something to set them off and never come back around....

so can we ask or should we assume by your silence it didn't go so good?

If if didn't and you don't want to talk about it, that's cool. just curious...and hoping it did work out

peace,
g33

 

[Butt Boi]

Thanks again guys. It went okay, I guess. I was so nervous. My friend who works with him knows how I get nervous when I get around people I don't know, and it takes a while to get use to people. I grew up not being around many people or having people to actually talk to and hang around with, so I blame that mostly!

As for the visit, I was quite, rarely said a word and let him and our dad talk. Then we went to my other brother's house for a bit, again I barely said a peep. We went out to eat and my niece and I had to set at a table by ourselves since the main table didn't seat 8, so I was sitting there with a 20 year old who acts like a 5 year old and constantly stealing my food. *sigh* She was the only one I actually talked to. We chatted the whole time about her ex-boyfriend who she dumped when she caught him getting it on with my former best friend, LMAO. Went back to their house for a bit until they said they had to be home so they left. My friend called that night and said the only reason they left early was to go drinking. Oh well.

We were suppose to have a BBQ and go fishing this Saturday, but he had my friend to send a message home saying they are not coming for some reason. I don't think she really likes us, and frankly I could careless. I don't want to get to know her anyways, and she acts like a snobby bitch, and I can't stand those type of people.

 

[garth33]

all in all...I think you have to chalk this up as a success!?...no one died and "a mediocre time was had by....all???" AGAIN - no one died and no one had to clean messy fish. To me it seems like a WIN/WIN situation???

Hope you had fun anyway BB...
peace
g33

 

[Thor]

why does it always seem to be hard to deal with the family?

anyway, seems it went ok BB..lol

 

[Butt Boi]

why does it always seem to be hard to deal with the family?

anyway, seems it went ok BB..lol

Well, it seemed to, but after today I don't think I'm going to have anything to do with him. He tells me a few weeks ago online he doesn't judge people, but then I found out to today he ran off and told my father I was a "fagot", which is so obvious since I'm a big queen - even though my parents can't grasp it!

Now, I post on local message board and someone made a thread about me. It didn't bother me that they made it, but someone started posting in it saying they know me and they know me very well but not well enough. The person who posted said things only family and my two friends would know, and one doesn't even live around here anymore and the other... I know she wouldn't do it.

Plus, I remember my "nice non-judging" brother had posted under his name a few months ago, and sure enough the IP's were both the same, and his comment from a few months ago ends with "have a nice day" and what do you know? These new comments direct to me end with "have a nice day".

Sometimes I wonder if life is even worth living for.

 

[XMan101]

Sent you a PM, BB .

Contact me anytime you need to talk

 

[intensepump]

Well, it seemed to, but after today I don't think I'm going to have anything to do with him. He tells me a few weeks ago online he doesn't judge people, but then I found out to today he ran off and told my father I was a "fagot", which is so obvious since I'm a big queen - even though my parents can't grasp it!

Now, I post on local message board and someone made a thread about me. It didn't bother me that they made it, but someone started posting in it saying they know me and they know me very well but not well enough. The person who posted said things only family and my two friends would know, and one doesn't even live around here anymore and the other... I know she wouldn't do it.

Plus, I remember my "nice non-judging" brother had posted under his name a few months ago, and sure enough the IP's were both the same, and his comment from a few months ago ends with "have a nice day" and what do you know? These new comments direct to me end with "have a nice day".

Sometimes I wonder if life is even worth living for.

I wished I had a big queen brother...:hug:

 

[Butt Boi]

I wished I had a big queen brother...:hug:

:hug:

Here's a drama filled update. I have not had any sleep since 5AM Tuesday morning. Went to work then later in the after noon received bad news about my grandmother being taken to the hospital so we all went up there and left, then were called back a few hours later. Grandma went into a deep coma and her kidneys started to shut down. The machine was the only think keeping her alive, so she was kept on it all night until the doctor came in and we would hope for a miracle would happen before then. It didn't, and she passed away around 8AM this morning.

I finally got so upset over this and the fact my so called "new" brother was talking more trash about me. I couldn't take it. I called him up to see if what people were telling me was true. He denied everything, just like he denied what I told them the other, which is actually true. I went off. I snapped so fast and so many times. So, he hung up and I waited a while and decided I want my friend and her husband to know for fact that he was the one lying. I can't stand it when people think of me like that. I would never do anything like that. So I called him again this time I had my friend on 3-way so she could hear him deny it and call them both liars. He did.

He said he had only meet me once and thought I was cool, and that he doesn't judge people, but then he turned around and called me a fagot which just proves his ignorance even more. Joy told me he had been caught in so many lies in the past year not to even worry about him anymore.

There's my drama filled update.

Edit: Oh, I forgot to mention the point in the conversation where he threaten to kill me from him "beating me up so badly"...

 

[marcusl1]

Sorry to hear of your loss BB. Better get some rest - sound like you have had enough drama for one day!