chats and stuff

[str8boy21]

ok i really want to get 2 know ppl from around the world and i saw all of thouse "camzap.com" and stuff but i wondered and i think there is got to be a site where gay teens and 20 yo from the US (and not abunch of middle age fat guys who dont speak english) hangout on cam and have clean\dirrty chats... you know something popular, and im really looking 4 thous sites.

so plz help and tell me what is the best (prefored cam based) chat site for gays\bi's my age

and if u know any video chat software for mac i wana hear about them 2
tanks!!!:thumbs up:

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

ok i really want to get 2 know ppl from around the world and i saw all of thouse "camzap.com" and stuff but i wondered and i think there is got to be a site where gay teens and 20 yo from the US (and not abunch of middle age fat guys who dont speak english) hangout on cam and have clean\dirrty chats... you know something popular, and im really looking 4 thous sites.

so plz help and tell me what is the best (prefored cam based) chat site for gays\bi's my age

and if u know any video chat software for mac i wana hear about them 2
tanks!!!:thumbs up:

Here's a word of advise for you? What ever cam site you'll go, those so called fat middle aged people that you are speaking of will always be there even though you specify in your profile "no older than 20 please". You might want to change your attitude toward this, and just built a proper reputation by accepting to speak with them and refusing to cam. When you are caming what are you looking for really?

I don't know for you but I know that for me it doesn't matter how old you are, I might broadcast but I don't want to see you even if you were the most beautiful dudes on earth. Just politely tell them off... but dude I'm telling you, you will never get rid of them because they are fueling the cam to cam business, go and take a quick poll on cam4 and check out the age of whom watching you, out of 600, pretty much 400 of your viewers are middle aged, perhaps fat or not. Pretty much all of them are looking for dude age 18 to 25, and I did test it once when I logged in with my dudes account... my dude is 25 and I'm 35 (but doesn't really look that age) and I decided to put my pics there instead of my dude's... buddy I had so much viewers you have no ideas young as old. Went back to my profile with same picture but then my age was back to normal... viewers dropped considerably (but my face haven't changed within a hour lol). I was super hot at 25, and out of sudden became butt ugly at 35 no matter if the picture and face was the same dude. Do you understand the dynamic here... people are not searching for pretty faces, they're first interested by your age.

I am in the category of the middle age you said... but I can guaranty you that my body look ten time better than a teenager your age so don't be so judgmental and learn to just politely decline. This way you'll built up a good reputation and might even makes some good friends that will bring you what you expect in a long run. I used to manage a cam site and trust me the dynamic between users was great because 20+ accepted to speak with older and vice and versa. They would set their limit and stick to them and people would just respect that.

Pretty much all cam site have people your age... but those little dudes are too busy showing off their asses and try to make a penny or two or they put the bar too high and end up with nobody at all. :cheers:

 

[str8boy21]

ok u got me all wrong i dont have a problema with older ppl i just asked were the younger ppl who are more appropriate for me (on my preference) are chatting in.
i wasnt expecting it to be old-men-free just to have more ppl like that.

and thank you for lecturing about something that was only a misunderstanding from your part and not helping me at all in what i was asking for! lol

come on guys any good chat sites, not brodcasting sites like cam4, something like "camzap" or "omegle" or even regular chat rooms just more specific to gays and a younger audience... because every one i get in to there are non english speaking and older guys and i am woundering where are all the cool dude from US are hanging in...
aseptically because im planing on traveling there as well soo.. i want to have a nice trip

 

[Nomad]

(and not abunch of middle age fat guys who dont speak english)

Your post is very easily 'misunderstood' and I am sure is offensive to many members. We try and respect everyone here...old, young, fat, thin, native english speaking, and not.

 

[hawtsean]

ok u got me all wrong i dont have a problema with older ppl

I'm calling bullshit on this, since you DEFINITELY did post a statement complaining about middle-aged fat guys viewing your cam. So yeah, you DO have a problem with ageism.

Dude, until you develop some friends in your age peer group, the only ones might be older than you and in lesser states of physical fitness. And, friends aren't easy to come by if everyone gets the impression that you will diss them if they don't fit your narrow construct of acceptance. Learn to take pride in yourself, and to accept the fact that others not so blessed might want to enjoy the view. After all, if you go on a live cam, you are an exhibitionist of some sort - don't complain when you have a willing audience.

Oh, and your screen name, STR8BOI21......really? If you're straight, why are you complaining in a gay forum about guys watching you???........just curious on that one.

 

[str8boy21]

ok... wow... i cant belive we came to this...
i do not have a problame with older ppl nor i do with fat ones
i am not one of the boys who brodcast on cam and let just anyone to see
i am looking for a place to get 2 know hot boys my age not because im searching for a BFF but because i want to have some cam2cam fun and that is why older and "lesser states of physical fitness" males are not the ones i am looking for therefor i asked if anyone does know a place with ppl more for my liking.

and can we plzz stop making a big emotional deel from a simple request to find good fuck buddys?!
geez loosen up!!!

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

ok u got me all wrong i dont have a problema with older ppl i just asked were the younger ppl who are more appropriate for me (on my preference) are chatting in.
i wasnt expecting it to be old-men-free just to have more ppl like that.

What I am about to do with you is a counter analysis of what you just posted and some adjustment. First from your previous post

and not abunch of middle age fat guys who dont speak english

This statement tells me that you do mind ages... if you don't mind ages do you really need to add those disrespectful qualifications knowing that on this board some people may be hurt. Is that what's happening in the Y generation... you guys are so self-centered you don't even see anymore when you can hurt someone emotionally.

and thank you for lecturing about something that was only a misunderstanding from your part and not helping me at all in what i was asking for! lol

Don't know from your smiley if I should take this as a funny statement or an arrogant smirks, I might not have help you at all which I am sorry since I can tell you that with an attitude like yours I seriously doubt that you will find anyone, and if you do they will immediately see a problem attitude wise. And I do not lecture dude, when I lecture it's supported by non closer than 120 universities scholars... that's what a lecture is. What I offered you is an observation based on what you wrote and it seems that I wasn't the only one seeing some misjudgment in your previous post.

come on guys any good chat sites, not brodcasting sites like cam4, something like "camzap" or "omegle" or even regular chat rooms just more specific to gays and a younger audience... because every one i get in to there are non english speaking and older guys and i am woundering where are all the cool dude from US are hanging in...

Seems to me that you already have two of the most popular one so what else do you need? You can sure try "camfrog" but be warned that they're might me some "fat middle age" hitting on your "straightboy" pseudonym there too.

aseptically because im planing on traveling there as well soo.. i want to have a nice trip

With an attitude like this I really believe that you'll end up being the bitch of them all in the States. Cool dudes in the states where are they? Are you kidding boy... do you know how large the United States of America is, over 275 millions inhabitants and thus only on the mainland. Where are the cool dudes are ... X_X duuuuuh!!! Try anywhere you go dum dum:rofl:. Wow and to believe that we're the one who have to loosen up, and we're the one who have misunderstand you message. Nah we understood it way too well... might want to read yourself backward, forward, sideways before posting and replying... because for the most of us here little dude we're not a bunch of idiotic kids... we understand pretty quick.:devil: (that's an arrogant smiley smirks). Grow up and yes try to have fun... there's plenty little dude like you in the US just be that way and you'll find them quite easy. Good luck anyway

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

ok... wow... i cant belive we came to this...
i do not have a problame with older ppl nor i do with fat ones
i am not one of the boys who brodcast on cam and let just anyone to see
i am looking for a place to get 2 know hot boys my age not because im searching for a BFF but because i want to have some cam2cam fun and that is why older and "lesser states of physical fitness" males are not the ones i am looking for therefor i asked if anyone does know a place with ppl more for my liking.

and can we plzz stop making a big emotional deel from a simple request to find good fuck buddys?!
geez loosen up!!!

No one is being emotional here little buddy... but I can tell by your replies that you are... if you can't take critics too bad... but really might want to go sleep on it and wake up 10 years later when you've grown a mustache and some balls to accept that you made a mistake and accept that people took you back on it. Come on stops crying now it will be okay :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

 

[hawtsean]

ok... wow... i cant belive we came to this...

Hmmm, sounds like a whining plea from someone who hasn't learned to be courteous, and can't stand the criticism. Well, better get used to being called out when you make clear statements of ageism as you did.

and can we plzz stop making a big emotional deel from a simple request to find good fuck buddys?!
geez loosen up!!!

Funny, it seems that you're the one getting emotional. So stop being rude to anyone over 25 and who isn't your perfect paradigm of physical fitness, and you won't get nailed with your own words. I'm rather surprised that a Moderator or Admin staff member hasn't warned you regarding common courtesy. Perhaps this is a wake up call that you might heed, when in a public forum.

 

[str8boy21]

ok... i really thought about just stop writing in here and let it go but first i will say this

i am very sorry if hurt anyone here... i did read what i have written here and i stand after what i have said i just really am not gona explain agin each line.
i felt like i have explained my intentions but i dont know why but i guess u didnt get the spirt in wich my words were.
or for all seriousness maybe its something in my english... maby thats the problame and i am not articulating my self the way i want it to come out.

soooo... there.... we closed that chapter (and i am not cynical i am sorry if i hurt someone!) now.... i would really love it if we get back to the point in wich i started..

and if the sites i mantiend are the most popular then ok... i thought maybe i dont know betters ones and u could help me

ohh!! and P.S
if i was the jerk u imagen me 2 b would i really try to clear things up every time?!... because if i think so, u got some nice jerks where u live....

 

[hawtsean]

i am very sorry if hurt anyone here... i did read what i have written here and i stand after what i have said i just really am not gona explain agin each line..................................................
ohh!! and P.S
if i was the jerk u imagen me 2 b would i really try to clear things up every time?!... because if i think so, u got some nice jerks where u live....

Ahh, what a shame that the first part is undone by the last. Well, at least we now understand that you really didn't want to insult various groups of men - those groups being the ones who spend a great deal of money as customers to keep those cam sites operating profitably.

 

[XMan101]

OK enough of this.

On the one hand it was perhaps wrong for str8boy21 to use the phraseology that was used, on the other stop jumping on a member when he's trying to untangle the mess he made

I understood what was meant by the original post, and I accept he knows it came out the wrong way, by accident or design it doesn't matter, he has appologised.

I think perhaps we close this and you can start again