How many years can you accept for the age gap between you and your bf?

[088888]

To me, I think I'm a little conservative= =". I think if the difference in age is too wide, say, 6 years or above (5 years is already my top actually= ="), it'd be so weird.... I can't tell what so bizarre. Just couldn't take it= =".... So what do u guys think=]]?

 

[smallsleepyrascalcat]

15 years... every boy younger would be underaged ;P

 

[777]

Around ten years in either direction for me. After that there starts to be a generation gap that may or may not affect the relationship... It depends.

 

[gb2000ie]

You really can't put an exact number on it. The gap between a 30 year old and a 35 year old is all but irrelevant, while the gap between a 17 year old and a 22 year old is very significant. Both are 5 year differences, yet both are totally different.

B.

 

[Whisper]

My bf is two years younger than I. It is not a problem anymore, but it did cause little difficulties when he was 17 and I was 19 and wanted to go to a bar together. But now the difference doesn't matter.

However because the way I dress and express myself people rarely give me my age... I don't look my age at all. Most stood surprise when I tell them that I'm 35 ...

I'm year younger than you, Jake, and still they have asked my ID's when buying alcohol The way you dress, act and also how the life have left marks to you affects so much.

But in the end, I think age is just numbers

 

[Behrluvr]

I'd say a generation difference either way for me, either 20 years older or younger. Although I never acted on my urges at the time, (out of green naivete) as a teen I deep down lusted after guys 35 to 45 years old. Just didn't know any better at the time and kind of wasted that period with guys my own age. I would have been extremely charged up if some Daddy out there had recognized my need. I was too inexperienced to realize my needs at the time.
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[Fredric13]

Love knows no boundaries, no distance, no fear.

 

[brmstn69]

If he's any less than 15 years my junior, I find he usually has trouble keeping up with me...

 

[088888]

Actually I'm an Asian. I mention this because most of the Asians' faces speak for themselves about their ages instead of the men, by themselves, tell you so. Especially once the man enters his 30s, the wrinkles and spots rush out very quickly= =" But for foreign guys they never seem to age a bit even after 10 years....just like Jake said even if he's now 35, sometimes he could hv get carded!!!@@

 

[777]

Actually I'm an Asian. I mention this because most of the Asians' faces speak for themselves about their ages instead of the men, by themselves, tell you so. Especially once the man enters his 30s, the wrinkles and spots rush out very quickly= =" But for foreign guys they never seem to age a bit even after 10 years....just like Jake said even if he's now 35, sometimes he could hv get carded!!!@@

I've always thought it depends of the life style a person has, many Asian men smoke, drink and work heavily and it affects the skin quickly, not just with Asian but anyone. Then there's of course the lucky ones who just have good genes...

 

[Behrluvr]

Actually I'm an Asian. I mention this because most of the Asians' faces speak for themselves about their ages instead of the men, by themselves, tell you so. Especially once the man enters his 30s, the wrinkles and spots rush out very quickly= =" But for foreign guys they never seem to age a bit even after 10 years....just like Jake said even if he's now 35, sometimes he could hv get carded!!!@@

Why is this a negative? Many find these outward signs hot and masculine.

"once the man enters his 30s," he's on the threshold of being the hottest and most physically attractive he will ever be in his life. A man is starting to peak at age 35. Age 30? Just a baby at age 30.

I love how people think you are all washed up and ready for the nursing home at age 30. I go snowboarding and typically see people age 70 swooping down the slopes, wrinkles, spots and all. (and getting the senior discount heyheyhey). I'm in an amateur ice skating club which has some members who are 70, they do jumps and spins, wrinkles and spots don't seem to be an issue.

 

[bijou]

I met my partner when he was 29. I was 52. Yep, 52!
We've been together for 15yrs and we've lived together for 14yrs.
He's first generation Korean-American. Works at one of the top 10 law firms in the US, and at 45, looks 20. Best of all, he's the kindest person I know.
B

 

[Whisper]

Why is this a negative? Many find these outward signs hot and masculine.

"once the man enters his 30s," he's on the threshold of being the hottest and most physically attractive he will ever be in his life. A man is starting to peak at age 35. Age 30? Just a baby at age 30.

I love how people think you are all washed up and ready for the nursing home at age 30. I go snowboarding and typically see people age 70 swooping down the slopes, wrinkles, spots and all. (and getting the senior discount heyheyhey). I'm in an amateur ice skating club which has some members who are 70, they do jumps and spins, wrinkles and spots don't seem to be an issue.

True, "older" men are considered sexy, many of the most hottest sex symbols are more like 30-50 years old than 20 years. Not like women who should always stay looking 20 years old :angry:

 

[777]

Why is this a negative? Many find these outward signs hot and masculine.

"once the man enters his 30s," he's on the threshold of being the hottest and most physically attractive he will ever be in his life. A man is starting to peak at age 35. Age 30? Just a baby at age 30.

I love how people think you are all washed up and ready for the nursing home at age 30. I go snowboarding and typically see people age 70 swooping down the slopes, wrinkles, spots and all. (and getting the senior discount heyheyhey). I'm in an amateur ice skating club which has some members who are 70, they do jumps and spins, wrinkles and spots don't seem to be an issue.

I agree partly, older can look very sexy. But if someone smokes, drinks and uses drugs... it doesn't. Skin gets a different hue, teeth usually look horrible, sweat stinks instead of smelling good, hair is in bad condition... complete turn off for me. There are exceptions to that too, some still look good but I only need to get a whiff and I'm off.

 

[petrovic]

I met my partner when I was 34 and he 27. Now I'm 45 and he is 38 and it is still going strong.

 

[088888]

@@ Perhaps when I enter my 30s, I would start understanding the sexiness and beauty of the age group LOL. Actually I'm now just 20 and my bf is just 21...still a long way to go=P but my bf also told me that he used to have a bf of his 30s when he was like 18 or something. And he said seriously that man really knew the sex!! He said it's the most wonderful sex with this man in his life ever...that kinda makes me jealous= ="

 

[loretta]

my ex is 16 years younger than i, we quit this valentine's day after 7 jears and in the last year it was shown that we could not longer glue the age gap. so for me is it not able to have a real long term relationship with a so much younger. next time i will look for a guy at my age and maybe similar experiences

 

[gingentleman]

Age is not the biggest factor in whether a relationship will or won't work!

 

[777]

:rofl::rofl::rofl:

That has happened more often than not unfortunately

 

[buffpaul]

My man is same age as I, 49, Our "friend" is 17 years younger, 32,
My man and I have been together for almost 10 years,
Our roomie has been with us for 2 years,
Everyone gives respect/kindness as they would like to get.
We are truly blessed.

Not to mention that we fuck like rabbits almost daily.