First of all I dont wanna offend anyone on here I have to say. I am fully convinced that I am gay and attracted to other guys. I am 21 and will finish mechanical engineering in 1 year and start to do my job. I have a quite understanding family to everything (except I didn't tell them I am gay. I don't know what will their reactions be like. I don't think that they will kick me away or so but they will be dissapointed indeed. ) I have some good friends but they're all straight. My straight-acting half is quite loveble and people like him mostly. He has a good family and lives in a good city. I say "he" because it is just not my whole personality. I am jealous of my handsome and straight friends all the time. I can't stop thinking that they are a lot luckier then me. they will have a wife and have kids. they don't have to live in misery like me . they just don't know how lucky they are.
so it is just , I want to take some air in this life. sometimes it gets so deppressing. Like I said I don't hate gayness or gay people. I know I am one myself. But I just find it difficult. Especially considering that I live in a quite conservative country. Being fully open is not an option for me. Acting straight all my life is not an option too. I just want to like girls and I feel like all of my problems will be solved. I am so confused and desperate. So I wrote on here to see if maybe there are other guys that feel or used to feel like this .
so it is just , I want to take some air in this life. sometimes it gets so deppressing. Like I said I don't hate gayness or gay people. I know I am one myself. But I just find it difficult. Especially considering that I live in a quite conservative country. Being fully open is not an option for me. Acting straight all my life is not an option too. I just want to like girls and I feel like all of my problems will be solved. I am so confused and desperate. So I wrote on here to see if maybe there are other guys that feel or used to feel like this .