question to all over the age of 50

[loretta]

is it true that elder men want to have more sex?

what dou you think:

compare your sexual appetite now and at the age of 25.

i think i want a lot more sex now

 

[topdog]

In terms of frequency - I can definitely live with less sex than in my 20's. I mean, back then every other day and several times a day was great. Now, once a week is fine.

However, I find sex lasts MUCH longer now. I have more appreciation for the slow exploration and buildup, bringing him to the edge, and then letting things simmer before ratcheting up the stakes. Instead of the quick "getting off" that characterized my sexual goal when I was young, now play sessions that last for hours is the norm.

So, for me, sex is better now - though admittedly less frequent.

 

[Tjerk12]

Where aging reduces a lot of Physical properties, it seems to have no influence on the human brain. That part of your body seems as young as ever. One of the driving forces for sex is reproduction. That part seems to get less important when you are old, so actually you can experience more pleasure when you do it and the disappointment or despair when there is no possibility, is smaller. But in principle there seems to be no major change.

 

[toddzca]

I turn 50 on xmas and i've had better sex in the last ten than in the first 25<first bj at 15 > i agree with topdog that sex is better because i've learned to take more time...but for me the frequency has been on the upslope rather than declining...but thats just me...

 

[jeansGuyOZ]

In terms of frequency - I can definitely live with less sex than in my 20's. I mean, back then every other day and several times a day was great. Now, once a week is fine.

However, I find sex lasts MUCH longer now. I have more appreciation for the slow exploration and buildup, bringing him to the edge, and then letting things simmer before ratcheting up the stakes. Instead of the quick "getting off" that characterized my sexual goal when I was young, now play sessions that last for hours is the norm.

So, for me, sex is better now - though admittedly less frequent.

I am much the same. I still get as randy as I ever did, but there is no longer the urgency. In the past I have had lots of quick encounters at beaches and park beats and places like that, but I no longer get satisfaction out of a "quickie". I think I have actually got more discerning with age. If I am with a guy, and what I am wanting out of the sex is not compatible with what he is wanting, I tend to think "OK, he is not the first, he will not be the last, let's wind it up, both of us move on and not waste each other's time."

One of the corollaries of that is that I am more likely than I used to be to work up the courage to suggest somethig slightly off-beat - "kinky" if you like. I no longer worry that he will think me weird and be put off doing anything at all. If that happens, so what? there will be others. And it's amazing how often it turns out that the other is in fact quite turned on by the thing I suggest doing. One never finds out if one doesn't ask.

 

[patric568]

It's about the same for me, which is to say, not much.

 

[trencherman]

is it true that elder men want to have more sex?
what dou you think:
compare your sexual appetite now and at the age of 25.
i think i want a lot more sex now

Yes, definitely! Since I am no longer preoccupied with earning a living, I find that I can dedicate myself now to everything that gives me pleasure, reading, music, food and drink, travel and sex. I actually travel to Brazil mostly for sex.

 

[diklik]

compare your sexual appetite now and at the age of 25.

i think i want a lot more sex now

Somewhat less frequent but way more satisfying and passionate. When I was younger, I fucked like an insane mink - just looking to satisfy the itch. Older definitely means wiser in my case, and a lot more pleasure.

 

[alexfot55]

Not particularly.It is just the constant worries:"Will he like to do it with me?" and "how many more years do I have ?"

 

[MeatMate]

Speaking only for myself I find that I want sex just as often (i.e. I think about it all the time) but there is just not the urgency to seek that sex. When I was younger I would grab everything that came up, wherever it came up and was constantly on the hunt, and, boy, did I have a good time ! Now, though, whilst not necessarily more discerning I am not so manic about it, and, as a consequence, life is much easier and the opportunities, when they come knocking, are more savoured and enjoyed.

 

[John_jjohns]

Sex after 50 is different because the purpose is not to just get off anymore. Its more for passion and love.