Where to start, when you really wanna meet someone special?

[Otage]

So when you have used your current options without no luck, but you still have the spirit to go out there and do what it takes to meet that special one, where/how do you start your search? What is important? Every advice might be the right one!

 

[c750dt]

Tittybar wearing a red suede suit. Lol j/k but seriously, all of my past relationships that worked out for an extended period of time started by accident and when I wasn't specifically looking. It seems to be a matter of being in the right place at the right time and working to make yourself attractive to the type of person you want.

 

[AleXXX UK]

I don't agree with leaving anything to chance, if you want something you gotta go get it. That applies to anything and anyone. So that means, plan, strategise, execute, identify someone and the home in on em. Try a little bit of everything. See what works best for you.

 

[Sinnerr]

:rofl: I'm not clairvoyant. And what does it mean special? Special party-animal at the disco. Special intelectual guy in libary. Special sportsman in fitness center. Special fashion maniac - boutiques in a shopping mall, etc...
Anyway, just be yourself have your interests. Do what you want, be optimistic. You will look ok, have good aura, and will meet someone.

I think for long time relationship is necessary to share some hobbies, but not all. And also it's good to have similar characters.
Some role has also zodiac sign. Best possibilites you have with guys who has same element as you. As I'm Sagittarius my element is fire. So biggest chance to be on same wawe I have with other Sag. or Leo or Aries.
Another Elements are: Water (Pisces, Cancer, Scorpio) Air (Libra, Aquarius, Gemini) and Land (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn). You can find several web pages about it. Note that it's never 100%. But some value it has I'd say. For example Water and Fire aren't much compatible. I can say my personal experience. My first bf was (still is) Scorpio and only department where we was on same wawe was sex.

 

[gb2000ie]

If you want to find the right person for you, you need to do activities you like to do, and hang out with groups who's interests and values you share. No point looking for your mister right in a communities you don't feel you belong in!

All this of course only works if you are out!

B.

 

[Mardo]

I think a lot of it comes down to luck or chance encounters. So my advice is to meet more people, not just guys or gay guys but EVERYONE lol. The more you mingle and are out and about the more likely it is you will find someone special.

But you have to enjoy going out so do things and go places you like or are comfortable with. If you always have the goal of meeting that someone special in your mind and it doesn't happen this week or this month.. you might start to feel discouraged. So accept that part of it is down to chance and enjoy going out all you can anyway.

And I already found my dream-guy...

Lincoln Younes


But... he is a tv-star, straight & lives far far away lol. Dreaming will have to do for now.:blushing: