at the gym

[ramzie]

this morning i was at the gym. As i told last month i trying to losse weight, so i am working out 5 times a week 2 hours per day.
Today i saw for the first some nice, maybe even beautifull, guys.
That made me very hot, but yeah you can do nothing there or am i wrong????

Ramzie

 

[topdog]

Congrats on your exercise program! Just remember though, it's more important to have a program you can commit to consistently year in and year out, than take on an Olympic training regimen. Trying to lose weight (or gain strength, or both) quickly is always a losing proposition. (My exercise tips here.)

As for sex in the gym, I must break the news to you that it is a time-honored tradition, with all the usual positives and negatives of public sex. For a less risky alternative, be open to start conversations, flirt, even, and then take your new friendships outside the gym to coffee or whatever.

 

[jeansGuyOZ]

As someone wha has trained in many gymnasia in various cities for years, I can state that, in this country at least, the myth of muscle-hunks having sex with each other at the gym is mostly just that - urban myth. I believe there is a certain amount of wishful thinking involved.

In my experience a bodybuiler is no more likely to be gay than any other male, and in fact I would say less so; quite a lot of them have very conservative social and political views. Of course there are always exceptions, and the likelihood of finding an exception probably depends a good deal on where the gym is located.

For example at one time I attended a gym in Sydney's gay ghetto, where I would estimate that from one third to one half of the clientele were gay. That still doesn't mean that sex happened on the gym floor, though I did witness a couple of encounters in the steam room (and participate in one). At other establishments, in suburbs populated by Mums and Dads with 2.4 children, you would be well advised to take your time and exercise judgment before trying to touch another man.

Invariably, the few times when I have scored in the steam room or sauna or spa or wherever, have been when I was not looking for it. Funny that.