I wonder if there are other autistic gays in here and how do you cope with that.
Me: ~ 60 years old, "high functioning autist" first diagnosed with "psych. behavior disorder" at the age of 4 because of problems in kindergarden and then therapy and therapy and....you know what I am talking about.
I live a "normal" live except that I do not have friends, I only have two persons that I care about and am able to have an emotional connection (Mother and my hubby).
Problem: physical contact I always had problems whith being touched - even my mother could not cuddle me. when I connected to a guy I could have sex and I did enjoy it very much, but only for a short amount of time, like 10 minutes or so. Now it is getting worse and my hubby is extremely frustrated - we are together since 2012 and instead of getting better our relationship is in danger.
Can anybody relate?
How do you deal with problems like these?
PS: I am german speaking so please excuse my bad english
Me: ~ 60 years old, "high functioning autist" first diagnosed with "psych. behavior disorder" at the age of 4 because of problems in kindergarden and then therapy and therapy and....you know what I am talking about.
I live a "normal" live except that I do not have friends, I only have two persons that I care about and am able to have an emotional connection (Mother and my hubby).
Problem: physical contact I always had problems whith being touched - even my mother could not cuddle me. when I connected to a guy I could have sex and I did enjoy it very much, but only for a short amount of time, like 10 minutes or so. Now it is getting worse and my hubby is extremely frustrated - we are together since 2012 and instead of getting better our relationship is in danger.
Can anybody relate?
How do you deal with problems like these?
PS: I am german speaking so please excuse my bad english