What makes you sad today?

[RefixnarcisM]

another low connection Internet. God, when will I finish downloading this movie, it would takes a century...blah!

 

[bigsal]

I have a tooth that hurts and I can not concentrate.

 

[RefixnarcisM]

This cough that has been last for almost a week just getting worse and annoying.

 

[herod]

This cough that has been last for almost a week just getting worse and annoying.

Do you also have a fever? Why is it not getting better?
Do you smoke?

 

[davidc]

funny that i should find this thread today. for the last few days, i have been feeling sad, very sad, and i don't know why. i have a lot of work, am busy all the time, have lots of friends who text/write me to ask me out for a drink (platonic -really good male and female friends), sometimes i accept, sometimes i decline, but i cannot shake this sadness. it is as if things were just out of my control, and nothing fulfills me. it kinds of upsets me that i am being such a sappy, dissatisfied cry baby. but, hey, i don't know what is wrong. i have tried sleeping around, NOT sleeping around, relationships, NSA-relationships, etc etc etc... no idea what the matter is. and effing facebook doesn't help, either, LOL! any ideas?

 

[robbober]

funny that i should find this thread today. for the last few days, i have been feeling sad, very sad, and i don't know why. i have a lot of work, am busy all the time, have lots of friends who text/write me to ask me out for a drink (platonic -really good male and female friends), sometimes i accept, sometimes i decline, but i cannot shake this sadness. it is as if things were just out of my control, and nothing fulfills me. it kinds of upsets me that i am being such a sappy, dissatisfied cry baby. but, hey, i don't know what is wrong. i have tried sleeping around, NOT sleeping around, relationships, NSA-relationships, etc etc etc... no idea what the matter is. and effing facebook doesn't help, either, LOL! any ideas?

That’s a hard one because I feel the same way sometimes, but not all the time. I also have tried many things including sex, during sex it was ok I guess and after I was also dissatisfied. My guess is you live alone; if that is the case maybe you should get a roommate or have a relationship were you both live together. Don’t know what to say, but maybe you just need to get away from it all for a bit, I think that would help me but just can’t afford it at this point.

And I’m not talking camping or something I am saying get away like a trip, cruise or something like that were there are Google’s of things to do and see, maybe take a very close friend or partner with you also. Another thing you could try is take up a challenging or exciting hobby, maybe something like scuba diving, sky diving, hand gliding, bungee jumping, jet skiing, something challenging that will get your adrenalin going.

Maybe I got it all wrong. Maybe it’s just the sex or relationships that are the problem. If that’s the case you have to find your notch, maybe add some toys to the sex or go to the woods and have sex, maybe even a 3 way. Just find the thing that makes you happy and excited.

It could be you just have not found that one special person yet and when you do, I am sure things will all change.

Don’t know if anything I said here will help or is on the rite track for you but that’s a hard one for me also.

Hope it helps and let me know how it works out.
Good luck to you! :big hug:

 

[RefixnarcisM]

@herod: No I'm not smoking, I dont know, I havent check up to the doctor since, I guess, it get better. Hmm is it two weeks already? Wow.
Mmm....I currently are using two internet right now. One for downloading and other one, using my mobile phone to access this site. Cant access through the first internet, internet cafe computer to be specifically due to the porn content regulations. Ooh well...

 

[yoyo888]

Got a cold. It has been lingering all week, but yesterday it started to really settle in. All aching and dribbly at the moment, and did not really sleep last night . And now the cough is starting. Colds always go to my chest . Bloody Asthma

Just about to have the first of many "Lem Sips" of the day to try and perk me up!

 

[davidc]

robbober, thanks for the shot at guessing; yes, i live alone, and the status of my relationship took an unexpected turn, where all of a sudden it is I ("I" underlined) who ends up paying with personal and financial problems (two people don't get along and one has to move out, and one ends up in the shit hole -i don't get it). and my partner was such a bitch that didn't find a way to help me out. there was a time where everything, EVERYTHING was negative, everybody around me had some negative attitude to shed. i even thought it was me. it wasn't: what happened was that i was more aware of the sarcasm, negativity, bad behavior which we have come to accept as a rule. i am much more positive in my attitude now, that's why i cannot fathom WTF is wrong. and it makes me mad! ugh. i also don't want to bitch and bitch all the time, so i've been ignoring, but... fuck... still sad. depressed. down.

sex doesn't help, either. i AM pretty successful in the love department for the time that the encounter/relationship lasts; but then... a void moves in... WTF?

 

[RefixnarcisM]

I should have know well that spicy food and me are not gonna work out, we are not meant to be a lover lol
But then again, I lost control. Now I pay the price.

 

[loretta]

i am so sad today, it is my 50th birthday, my partner broke up with me, i lost my job and i know that i am going to bed tonight alone...suicide?

 

[bigsal]

i am so sad today, it is my 50th birthday, my partner broke up with me, i lost my job and i know that i am going to bed tonight alone...suicide?

You have my sympathy.

Forget the age of 50.

Forget about your partner.

The real tragedy is the loss of jobs.

My wish, rather than for your birthday, you can soon find a new job.

 

[AleXXX UK]

People who forget life is a blessing and spend too much time stressing

 

[Cute Prince101]

Just got off the phone with my grandmother who doesn't speak much English, and it's very hard for me to talk to her since i don't know many Greek words, I'm worried:worried: that she going to mix up her medication cause she thought that i was Friday today when it's actually Saturday but i did tell her in Greek that it was Saturday, I hope she will be alright? :hug:

 

[herod]

i am so sad today, it is my 50th birthday, my partner broke up with me, i lost my job and i know that i am going to bed tonight alone...suicide?

I'm sorry about that. I hope you'll find another, better job. I also hope that you'll find someone else

 

[herod]

Just got off the phone with my grandmother who doesn't speak much English, and it's very hard for me to talk to her since i don't know many Greek words, I'm worried:worried: that she going to mix up her medication cause she thought that i was Friday today when it's actually Saturday but i did tell her in Greek that it was Saturday, I hope she will be alright? :hug:

Hm, maybe she can try one of those medicine organizer with 7 boxes, one for each day?

 

[herod]

@herod: No I'm not smoking, I dont know, I havent check up to the doctor since, I guess, it get better. Hmm is it two weeks already? Wow.
Mmm....I currently are using two internet right now. One for downloading and other one, using my mobile phone to access this site. Cant access through the first internet, internet cafe computer to be specifically due to the porn content regulations. Ooh well...

Well, I'm glad you are all better! I just want to make sure you don't have one of those chronic infection, which needs antibiotic. :thinking:

 

[Cute Prince101]

feeling very tired and sleepy all day today at the office (workplace) cause of Daylight savings which started on Sunday here in Australia meaning i have 1 hour extra of daylight and lose 1 hour of sleep and now it will take me about 1 week or 2 for me to adjust to the new time changes :hug:

 

[cacc]

This tiny shithole town I'm stuck in

 

[Cute Prince101]

Weekend is almost coming to an end where i live but at least i had a great time Looking forward to my day off from the office (workplace) this Wednesday.